Originally Posted by
sum41fan
In a relationship or marriage men have to
-pay/plan all dates
-plan and pay for vacations
-give massages
-focus entirely on her sexual pleasure
-hold her to sleep
-cook dinners and make picnics
-give expensive gifts
-wait on her
-provide financially
-do all the yard work and fixing stuff
-do half the cooking and cleaning
-make more sacrifices
So what do women do for men?
- Do half the cooking and cleaning (but usually more because most guys can't be bothered)
- Pay plan for all dates and vacations together with the husband
- Give massages
- Routinely provide sex even if they are not in the mood and don't want to do it, just to please their man
- Consistently try to get the message across to their man "Stop giving me expensive gifts and just make me happy instead".
- Give birth
- look after the children
- Sacrifice her career and work in favour of looking after the family and raising kids
- Provide companionship, emotional support and encouragement in most areas of the guy's life.
- Sacrifice her decisions and direction of the family in favour of the guy's plans (usually)
- Put up with being blamed for faults that most times aren't even hers
- Put up with the pain of being consistently misunderstood because guys don't usually operate on the "emotional level"
- Put up with emotionally exhausting routines that guys like to engage in
- Put up with all of the above because society and usually even her family routinely encourage her that this is the way it should be
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~