Intimate Sensitivities

[Mish]

I was wondering if anyone had an answer to this. What's the best remedy against hurting your partner during sex? (apart from not doing it). I think it might have something to do with sensitivity to rubber or something along those lines. Has anyone had experience with that? What did you do?

Just to add to that, foreplay and lubricant don't work as well. With an hour long foreplay or without, the girl can only handle five to ten minutes of penetration before it starts to hurt her (before anyone asks, different positions and paces had been tried as well)

Any advice will be really appreciated.

[Junket]

I heard silicone lubricants don't dry as quick.

[DoesntMatter]

I heard silicone lubricants don't dry as quick.

Fucck what you've heard Fras

[GrkScorp]

Try something other than latex condoms..

If you're both pretty comfortable with each other.., then you should ask that you both go together to get tested.., so that you can start using lamb-skin condoms..

A safer bet.., is just polyurethane condoms.., it's like the clear coating you pass over wood floors.., only it now comes in a condom! They're not as stretchy.., and they have the effect of chocking your d*ck.., they really do.., however.., they don't cause the same "road rash" inside her inner skin that latex condoms do.. (but be careful what kind of lubricants you use with each condom.., you don't want your condom dissolving.., that's a big no-no)

[mtinlove]

In all honesty...she should maybe speak to her gyno about it.... there are many many many conditions a woman can have which causes painful intercourse. Even with lube, foreplay, etc.... If she doesnt have anything her doctor would be the best person to give her some advice as to what you both can do to ease the pain. Hope something works out

[jsn_nwsm]

My girlfriend is like that, ten minutes tops, and she is in pain. She is on the pill, so we don't use condoms. I would also like some advice. She won't ask her doctor, she is embarrased, or doesn't think that its a problem. HOw can I artfully approach the subject?

[DarkDwarf]

You've been hijacked!

[lesa]

vasectomy

[tooxshort]

Well, Mish, I can't really add to what others have said, but how about a penile reduction?

[Mish]

Well, Mish, I can't really add to what others have said, but how about a penile reduction?

I'm not sure which one is worse you recommending that or Giga thank you for it

[Gigabitch]

Oh, come on. Just an inch or so off the end.

[Mish]

Oh, come on. Just an inch or so off the end.

Are you saying you don't want me to keep it in double digit inches?

[Gigabitch]

I'm suggesting you might be hitting her too deep. Is that what's going on?

[Mish]

I'm suggesting you might be hitting her too deep. Is that what's going on?

I thought so initially, but when I asked for more information it didn't turn out to be the case. I'm looking up some information based on advice Lesa gave in another thread I think that might be the problem.

If it is, there will be some work ahead.

[Pears]

Face it, you're just too huge. There's too much man in one dick.