did you ever get back with your partner after being 1 or more years apart?

[adviceneeded]

i haven't talked to my ex in almost 10 months now.

have you ever gotten back with an ex after a long period of time like this? if so how was it?

[bluesummer]

Hell no.......by then I'd moved on, found someone better, and forgotten about the old one.

I hate re-runs, and that includes relationship re-runs.

[Illusional]

yes, and it was the same result all over again. we broke up.

raverboy

[scallop]

Yes, I got back with my ex after about 15 months apart.
For about 12 months everything seemed fine but then she pulled the same stunt again.
Don't do it.

[Charlie Boy II]

yeah I did that once, when I was younger. Got back with an ex after we hadn't spoken for almost a year. But it was only because I was going through a particularly bad patch at the time -the worst of my life to date. So my motivations were selfish and I took advantage of the feelings she still had for me. Of course I rationalised all this at the time, but in hindsight it was a cruel thing to do and it taught me a good lesson.

Anyway, in my opinion that kind of thing is almost never a good idea.

[Pears]

My ex was the biggest mistake and the biggest regret in my whole life. I wish bad things on him. I would never get back with him.

[adviceneeded]

thanks for your replies guys

for those of you who did get back together, how long did you end up staying together for the second time around? and did they sleep with anyone while you were broken up? how long did it take you to deal with and get over that?

[scallop]

thanks for your replies guys

for those of you who did get back together, how long did you end up staying together for the second time around? and did they sleep with anyone while you were broken up? how long did it take you to deal with and get over that?

We stayed together for about 12 months. To be honest I don't know if she slept with anyone whilst we were broken up - I never asked and I guess this was because I didn't want to know. I suspect she did once or twice. But I just didn't think about it.

Couldn't care less anymore however because after breakup number 2 with the same selfish bitch i've kind of lost interest in her.