Originally Posted by
davidsbabygirl
Why are women more prone to go up to their husbands when something is wrong and say "baby do you need someone to talk to?" or "Is there something wrong do you need to talk?" and a guy just lets the women pretty much deal with all her problems and feelings on her own.....
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR~! sorry i had to rant!
I think your answer is within the question. Guys are not well equipped to deal with emotional problems. For us it's a foreign territory, a minefield. Think about it, where would a guy learn how to pick up on emotions? They certainly don't teach that at School. Girls are not only more adept at picking up emotions, they are also socially conditioned to excel in these environments. Guys on the other hand are de-conditioned.
But surely you have girl friends who can counsel you and help you out with these?
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