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    Decoding Guy-Talk

    Okay...I need some input, specifically from the males. Here's the story. I recently met this guy who is currently in a relationship, and I'm starting to like him a lot. He seems to feel the same although I'm not 100% sure yet. So here's my main question...last time I saw him, he asked me where my boyfriend lives. I had never even said anything to him about whether or not I even have a boyfriend. Then, he said "I bet you've had a lot of boyfriends, haven't you?". I cannot figure out whether he said that implying that I might sleep around, or that I'm cute so I would naturally have a lot of boyfriends. I'm sorry if this is confusing.

    So please, I need all the input I can get here. What do you think his comments mean? Could he be interested????

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    Its his way of finding out if you have a boyfriend, and what your "history" is like. Thats what that statement "usually" implys.
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    you know what.. I am in this sort of situation too.

    I wll start my own thread.. I dont wanna take away from yours but I understand COMPLETELY!!
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    innova sounds about right.

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    i'm guilty of using the same line too..
    Men are from Earth. Women are from Earth. Get a grip!

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    There's a very simple formula for deciding what that means.

    We take your measurement (ex. 36 (A) - 25 (B) - 34(C))

    We follow formula f(x) = ( a/b + b/c ) x c/a
    Then, you take the derivative of f' (x) at point f(x), then,
    if f'' (x) > 3.5 he wants to **** you
    if f'' (x) < 3.5 then you have a hot friend he wants to ****
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    He just wanted to know your history with dating and if you've had alotta dates/relationships. He more than likely tried to flatter you with that line. Maybe see if you're an outgoing person or reserved when it comes to getting involved.


    He asked you where your boyfriend lives because it's a way to find out if you're involved without being direct. Being direct by asking, "So do you have a boyfriend?"

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    lol! Welcome back MVP. Now it's time to have fun in this forum!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sliz84
    Okay...I need some input, specifically from the males. Here's the story. I recently met this guy who is currently in a relationship, and I'm starting to like him a lot. He seems to feel the same although I'm not 100% sure yet. So here's my main question...last time I saw him, he asked me where my boyfriend lives. I had never even said anything to him about whether or not I even have a boyfriend. Then, he said "I bet you've had a lot of boyfriends, haven't you?". I cannot figure out whether he said that implying that I might sleep around, or that I'm cute so I would naturally have a lot of boyfriends. I'm sorry if this is confusing.

    So please, I need all the input I can get here. What do you think his comments mean? Could he be interested????
    from a males perspective.... i would say hes interested in you and he asks that to casually find out if your with someone and then complimented you saying you could probably easily get a lotta boyfriends

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