Same old thing- reslly cant forget her

[wes8139]

well...
Its now been a year and 8 months - and i still cant forget my ex girlfriend. i know what your thinking..pathetic.
I have great friends, im reasonably popular, but for some reason every single day , when i wake up and when i got to sleep, i think about my ex.
In my view we had the best relationship, we were together 3 years and it was so much fun , always laughing and joking around etc, i was so deeply in love and then one day out of the blue she ended it. I have never experienced pain like it in my entire life. even now i shed tears every so often when i think back. since we split we have hardly spoken. This is down to me. i have totaly cut her out of my life, i try to pretend i hate her but im fooling myself.
I have had 2 girlfriends since, both of which have lasted about 5 months, and both relationships i ended, basically because all i do is compare them to her. The first girl was stunning but all it was about was a rebound. I have to be honest that it did not work, i was still so obsessed with my ex that i couldn't fuction ver well in the bedroom, even though she was absoloutly stunning and i have no erection problems, i felt repulsed by her just because she wasnt my ex. The second was the complete opposite, a great girl and everything was great in the bedroom, the best ever, but again she just didnt feel like my ex did.
I recently found out my ex said she made a big mistake splitting with me. But i dont know if she has another man and the thought of it drives me mad. Please just some good advice would help

[Cain]

It's pretty obvious that you aren't over your ex, and if she said she made a mistake, why not find out if she has a boyfriend? But honestly, you need to find out why she broke up in the first place. If it was for a specific reason, you need to make sure that is fixed otherwise don't be surprised if it were to happen again.

[someonelse]

Why are you being a hypocritical asshole? Why does it matter if she’s been w/another guy while you were w/two other women?

But like Cain said make sure you know what the problem was and fix it before you get back together.

[Cain]

Why are you being a hypocritical asshole? Why does it matter if she’s been w/another guy while you were w/two other women?

But like Cain said make sure you know what the problem was and fix it before you get back together.

I don't think the fact that she saw a man while they were apart drives him mad.. simply the fact that she said breaking it off was a mistake and that she might have a man NOW.

[Gigabitch]

People split for a reason. I suggest you write her an email and ask her for an explanation so you can move on.