my gut has been pitted.

[DoesntMatter]

misombra


*hugs*

[someonelse]

misombra *hugs*

[shh!]

I don't know why your boyfriend would defend him. It sounds like he was being implicated in the "bad environment", too.

[boobaa]

Maybe they realized you have been gathering a gang of women. You probably don't know what its like when there are bunch of headless chicken running around constantly discussing relationships and stuff, all day long. And one day you just break.

Everything is two sided.

[someonelse]

There's no excuse to be disrespectful to someone in their own home. You don't like the environment get out. Or at least say it more respectfully.

[boobaa]

Go tell it to him then.

[Gribble]

What crap. Sorry you have to deal with that sort of nonsense. Mike should be on your side no matter what.

[bluesummer]

I'm suprised your bf didn't back you up, considering his friend was quite obviously disrespecting YOU, and that should be a huge deal to him!! Wtf! You are going to have a good discussion with him over this, I'm assuming ?

Good for you for standing up to that jackass though. Sometimes these type of people need someone to put them in their place.

[misombra]

i'll probably be talking to him about it. i've remained out all day and still haven't spoken with him about it. although he usually tries to call and grovel a million times and hasn't called.

maybe he's thinking of leaving. i don't know. what a fool he would be cause i have a line out the door waiting for mikey to be done. lol jk.

[squirrley]

Honey that's wrong your man did not stand behind you on it. My husband would never allow that kind of shit to happen. It's your house. What was he thinking? It sounds like you need some down time to think this through. Why would he act that way? Men can be such idiots. Do you think he was just making the balls big in front of him? No wonder he's groveling now, he knows he did wrong by you. But I'd surely stand my ground he was in the wrong 100%.


(((((((((hugs)))))))))))

[tooxshort]

Sorry, Miso ... Don't trip off it too bad ... You know you can't stand up on your own if you need to ...

Was everyone sober at the time also? Shit, I was thinking it could've been some drunken stupidity ...

But yes, you have the right to maintain your world however you want it when you're in your own home. If anyone tries to disrespect me on my own turf, they get dealt with.

[bluesummer]

I was wondering if alcohol was a factor, too.

Not that that excuses anything, but it often amplifies obnoxious behaviour.

[misombra]

no, it wasn't drunken stupidity. it was just plain stupidity.

my stomach still hurts so bad i can hardly breath.



edit: i just saw a recent message on his computer. he writes stuff down on a word document. it read: "how to get out. don't worry, i have money put away." and his myspace page says "planning my escape."



i think i'm getting dumped for defending my home and him.

[shh!]

Damnit! I know you love this guy 'sombra, but he sure pisses me off. Do you have a friend you can lean on for support?

[Tone]

i think i'm getting dumped for defending my home and him.

Then you should feel glad you can be rid of him and move on w/ your life.