Everything is has been going downhill lately. It's like we've grown apart or something. We argue about small insignificant details every day. Whether he should buy a bus-ticket from a kiosk or from the bus driver or whether we should have a barbecue at my place, at his place or at his friend's place. The list of problems is endless. And though I'm telling myself that we shouldn't argue this much and that I should not force so many matters into arguments, the arguments still happen. I'm also bored. We don't do as much things together as we used to. And our sex-life is also complicated. I have arousal problems - I just don't feel anything when he touches me. Well, I can't say that I don't feel ANYTHING, I do feel that I love him and that I care for him, but I don't feel aroused, I won't get wet and our sex is dry. I've never had an orgasm with him. He is trying, but after 10 minutes I just give up. Me, myself and I are giving up, because I don't feel anything, I might find myself thinking about a bar of chocolate on the table or what are we going to eat for breakfast or what classes I have the next day.
I was thinking... If maybe we'd just start over, go on a first date, do something fun together, act like we didn't know each other, learn new things about one another. I told him about my idea, but he didn't like it very much. He admits we have a problem, but... he doesn't think it's the right way to solve it. What do you think?
Also - what should we (or I) do about our sex life? Or should I post this question under another topic? I've considered using lubes but... is that going to solve the arousal problem?
Thank you for your help!