We like each other, what next?

[Maverick88]

Hi,

I met this girl 5 weeks ago. To be precise she was a soldier of mine. Last week she finished the course and we (All the soldiers and staff) organized a little party to celebrate it.

That night she was all over me, I am not sure if it was the alcohol or something else, but it was really fun and we clicked right away.

Through a friend of her I came to know that she has a eye on me and she likes me. We met yesterday again for a cup of coffee and all was nice and great.

But what next? I am afraid to call her too often, because I don't want to look desperate about her.

[clearskies]

You need to talk to her if you are thinking about her.... what is putting you off?

[Maverick88]

Since Thursday I have been talking to her at least once a day.
But I am getting the feeling I am showing some kind of "desperation" if I keep calling her all the time.

[clearskies]

What about txting her in the morning and before she goes to bed?

[Cain]

Soldier of yours?

You'll have to explain that a little more.

[misombra]

take her out to a movie or something.

[clearskies]

yes invite her for something you both like.. cinema, theatre, opera, even for dinner so you can talk much longer.

[Maverick88]

Soldier of yours?

You'll have to explain that a little more.

I am an intelligence course instructor. Every course is about 5 weeks and we get both male and female soldiers. After 5 weeks there's something called "distance-breaker", when all the instructors freely talk about themselves and with the other soldiers.

To celebrate the end of the course we all organized a little party at on of the soldier's house.

What about txting her in the morning and before she goes to bed?

Yeah, I think that's the best idea for now.

I will only be able to meet her again the coming Thursday, because she stays at the base for the whole week.

The same goes for me, but I got a week off.

[clearskies]

Being an instructor, this means you have excellent communication skills. I am sure you can know what she likes and that will make things easier for both of you. I got to know now how sensitive you are.. but I think she has feeling towards you else she won't be talking to you.

[Cain]

But you're just an instructor, right? You're not actually IN the military, right?

[Cain]

but I think she has feeling towards you else she won't be talking to you.

You need to rethink what you write sometimes. Just because a girl is talking to a guy doesn't mean that she has feelings towards him. I'm in a nursing program filled with women and I am pretty sure they all don't have feelings for me since I talk with most of them daily.

[clearskies]

Nursing program... hahahaha...what a laugh for a man.... I have seen it once in london a male midwife! He was a joke , nurses liked him but never stopped laughing at his back..

[Cain]

Nursing program... hahahaha...what a laugh for a man.... I have seen it once in london a male midwife! He was a joke , nurses liked him but never stopped laughing at his back..

It's a joke... for a guy to be in a profession that helps people when they're injured? Regardless, I have to go through it to get into my graduate program. You can laugh all you want, but when I'm finished I'll be bringing in $175,000 per year with six years of school.

And I don't think you should be laughing at anyone, Miss Illiterate.

[clearskies]

Illiterate... i teach who are much much better than you ...PGs if you know what I mean..

[clearskies]

Sorry I am not a miss .. I am a Dr .. and Mrs as well student.. Rethink before you write... READ THE Title of the Thread before you write a single word... 'We like each other, what next?' or do you know better than him>...Might be, why not? you may have been talking with them as a third party... who knows ..