Originally Posted by
Lola
My problem is this. I know I'm better off because he would always be emotionally unavailable to me because of his addictions and more than likely, it would only get worse. The thing is despite his addictions, he did treat me good and I miss those qualities. That's what I am having such a hard time dealing with. Now, he's with her and she gets those good qualities. Of course, she gets everything else too and so will her child.
If he is stupid enough to call again, I will NOT answer the phone, which is what I should have done a long time ago.
Do you know how amazing it is to read that you are so on the right track?
I know you think that the relationship was a lie.. I would too but believe me .. you are doing the right thing. DONT LET HIM CALL YOU!
You need to take care of you and your feelings. That is more important then anything!
This will pass and things will get better ..
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