Should I Cut My Losses?

[Kay5]

I was seeing a guy few years back('05)..things didn't work out at first, but we BOTH agreed to try to build a relationship('07). I figured I was doing my part, so I kept suggesting that we should meet up, and he would agree. Then, when it was time to do so--he had an excuse. So, for the last time I tried to go see him (last Aug.) and--HE told me (in his exact words) he didn't "want to see me, but...". So out of anger, called him some names. I haven't heard from him since then.

Thing is, I think about him, and would like to reconcile possibly(friends would be nice), but on the other hand, I didn't like the way I was treated, and would like to stay away. I just didn't understand why he couldn't be honest with me and why I was treated as such. I would like to have questions answered by him, but I'm afraid he's not going to say anything! Should I TRY to see if he would like to reconcile or just leave him alone?

[Mish]

Should I TRY to see if he would like to reconcile or just leave him alone?

You can try sending a one line message "Hi, how you been? What's new?" and see if there's a reply and if there is go from there.

Though, it's been a year since you last spoke, don't expect much from it.

[misombra]

leave him alone. if he wanted to be with you, he would make the effort.

[shh!]

Yup, forget about him and save your dignity. He knows how to reach you; he just doesn't want to.