Originally Posted by
Joker
From this I assume that the reason she's apprehensive is because she's scared about what will happen to our friendship in the end. Now i've been her friend for ages and even if things didn't end up well as a couple i would never leave her as a friend...and i am nothing like her previous boyfriend.
You may know that, but she doesn't. There is nothing in her mind that says you are any different than all those other boys who tried and failed and then started to avoid her. Actions speak louder than words. Show her that you are her friend and will be her friend no matter what happens between the two of you.
As for the asking out bit, she sounds a bit 'besieged' at the moment. I have a suspicion if you try now, you might meet the same cold shoulder as all the others. Personally, I think there's no rush. It's not the "asking out" that creates attraction it's other things that you can utilize while you are friends. Build attraction and comfort, once there is enough of both you won't even have to ask.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~