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    HELP i'm afraid to be nude.

    I avoid having sex with my bf,with fear that he will break up with me because of my AA cup. I'm 20 years old and thin but not skinny.What should I do? Will I lose him if he sees my nudity?

    Any advice will be appreciated. Thanks for reading this!

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    How long have you been together?

    If he is willing to break up with you over that, he obviously didn't care about you.
    I don't chase, I replace.

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    we've chatted on internet for 1yr,and just started relationship for 2 weeks. i mean,will i disappoint him?

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    Doesn't he already know you are skinny? Unless he is as dumb as a rock, he should know that skinny girls usually have small boobs.

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    boob size isn't really a big deal at all for most guys. Personally, it wouldn't worry me in the slightest. I think you, like most women, would be suprised how much more focused you are on your physical imperfections than we are. Once we see you naked we're too turned on to worry about anything like that.

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    What are you talking about girl? A women's body is beautiful despite her boob size. I'm as flat as you and guys still look.

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    Your insecurity will be the cause of your break up sooner than your tits will.

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    Yes, you've got to stop believing that everyone wants Pamela Anderson-sized boobies. As you can see from some of the other posters, men look at the whole package, not just one part.

    We as women will find all sorts of things to pick on ourselves about. Our boobs are too small, our asses too big, we have freckles, we're too pale, our hips too wide or too narrow, and so on and so on. All because the beauty industry tries to dictate how we look so that we buy into the physical dissatisfaction and spend money on their products and services. You've got to nip that in the bud, early on or else you'll never be satisfied.

    There are some women out there with big boobs who wish they were smaller. Some clothing fits better on flatter women.

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    You should really try to get a hold of your insecurities while you are young. When you get to be old, you will look back and wish you had appreciated your youthful body more.

    Besides, for most people the size is much less important than the shape and feel, and a guy who is obsessed with big boobs probably wouldn't be dating you in the first place.
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    This thread reminds me of Tobias from Arrested Development.
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    In my opinion, small breasts can also be sensual as hell, I definately don't see a problem with that.
    Don't expect anything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by starbuck View Post
    This thread reminds me of Tobias from Arrested Development.
    Hah! You beat me to the punch.
    God, so atrocious in the Old Testament, so attractive in the New--the Jekyl and Hyde of sacred romance.
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    girl... he already knows that you're pretty much flat chested... but is he still with you?? yes he is... coming from a guy, we know how big our gf's breast are just by what she wears.

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    Is there some false advertisement going on...do you know what I mean? Doesn't he already have some idea?

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    We can have cam sex if you want to loosen up a little I think perky breasts are sexy.

    I wish there was no such thing as clothing.

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