Are Men "Scared" of Virgins???

[Cain]

Not for me, but I have issues so nevermind . I hope he knows (senses it) but I doubt it.

You're just a weirdo.

[Kay5]

Thank you! A rational girl!

You're right though, most people, guys and girls, are lazy fuccking dumbshits

LOL--ITA.

[Kay5]

Us virgins get bad raps...I hope my first is a virgin as well so we both can learn together. But hell, at even 19, almost 20 I doubt there's many left.

We've all got to start somewhere, right? Some sooner than others.

Exactly! Everyone had a starting point when it came to sex--and SUCKED AT FIRST, lol. No body became a PORN STAR overnight. And guess what? Sex is ever-changing....everytime you get with a new partner--it's like starting all over again--not knowing how that person's going to react to what you do/say in the bedroom.....

[lesa]

You're just a weirdo.

I knew you would say that about me eventually . Jeez, you are harsh to me. Will I ever be your friend?



As for my poor communication with the ex, I just never talked about things like that. It wasn't the way I was brought up but now I am so much different. I don't talk/think like that anymore. That was my past I was commenting about as an example that a person doesn't have to announce their virginity to a person they just started dating.

[Junket]

No body became a PORN STAR overnight.

I did...
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[Only-virgins]

This is a discussion my friends and I have had multiple times. None of us are stoked with the idea of a virgin whatsoever. There are just too many variables. Girls in general tend to get clingy after you sleep with them. I'd imagine being the one to take a 22 yr old girl's virginity could be pretty hectic.

Additionally, inexperienced partners = lousy partners. This almost always holds true. The odds of a girl who is a virgin being a good lay are slim to none. That is truly your best bet at sleeping with a dead fish.

Even worse, what if you're engaging in this lousy lay with this virgin girl and any of the following occur: 1) She's just a terrible lay, 2) She starts to cry, 3) She complains about the pain the whole time.

Finally, why are you girls cruising around telling guys you meet that you are virgins. If you are with someone in a serious relationship, you tell them after a little while. This is not something you blurt out. It will definitely scare the majority of us off because, if nothing else, there is something we will consider strange about you since you've waited so long to lose your v-card.

Dude, you and your friends are like the complete opposite of me. Haha funny. I rather have a chick get a little emotional during sex over the option of thinking how another dick somewhere and at some point penetrated the person I love.

[psydex]

Sacred? hell no...bring em on!

HAHAHA!!! I like your thinking! [the name kinda sez it all!]

[psydex]

I have slept with a couple of v-platers... there are positives & negatives, as with everything.


In one situation; negative in my case was that we were at university together living in the same flat, she was amaaaazingly clingy... i couldnt even go to the pub on my own! not that i couldnt go... she became a dog following at my heel all the time.
Positives, once you get to that point, theyre like putty in your hands fellas!

either way... the huge difference between blokes n lasses, blokes aim to get laid as FAST AS POSSIBLE... girls want to make sure its with the right one!

[shh!]

I don't know why "not necessarily wanting to be bothered" is assumed to be the same thing as being scared...

[DoesntMatter]

In the field of relationships, being a virgin means you're inexperienced and probably don't know much about relationships, so people don't want you in theirs

I can think less of people who are not good at organic chemistry because of this

[misombra]

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yN2rdVS7T6U"]YouTube - Madonna - Like A Virgin[/ame]

[DoesntMatter]

lol, it's like last night, my friend that was being a dick making fun of me for being a sex virgin, I ripped him apart for being an organic chemistry virgin when he came to me for help. I helped him, just let him know he's a retard at the same time

Organic chemistry is the most common sensical science there has ever been

[Kay5]

I did...
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orly? (complete BS...)
Good for youse.

[Kay5]

I don't know why "not necessarily wanting to be bothered" is assumed to be the same thing as being scared...

that's why I wanted clarification.

Thanks..........

[Kay5]

I have slept with a couple of v-platers... there are positives & negatives, as with everything.


In one situation; negative in my case was that we were at university together living in the same flat, she was amaaaazingly clingy... i couldnt even go to the pub on my own! not that i couldnt go... she became a dog following at my heel all the time.
Positives, once you get to that point, theyre like putty in your hands fellas!

either way... the huge difference between blokes n lasses, blokes aim to get laid as FAST AS POSSIBLE... girls want to make sure its with the right one!

Sucks that she was like your shadow after the deed. She just happens to be one of the 'cling-ons'.

But like you said--there a positives/negatives--yet each v-girl is different (with different objectives).