So I did post this to the men - now hoping I will get more response in a larger forum

I have been dating the same man for about 6 months. He says he loves me - but he said that very early in the relationship. We are both in our fifties. I have older kids - he has none. I have been the one to keep the relationship "in check" because I am not ready to get married again. So we usually see each other twice a week. For a bit on a weekday and an evening/morning thing on Sat/Sun. I babysit for my son on Fridays.

So for the last two Saturday nights, my boyfriend has been "busy". There is somewhat of an explantion for the early afternoon but nothing into the evening. We were together for a bit Saturday - earlier in the day. He bought two collectables with fairies - one was a magnet and one was a crystal. He doesn't have kids, or a sister, and I don't collect that type of stuff. Besides he said it was for him.
So I am thinking that they are probably for someone else and that is what he is doing with his Saturday nights?? My ex cheated on me the last few years of a 24 year marriage. I am seeing the same signs - but .................