He says NO to sex!

[Love Portion #9]

Hi,

I recently dated a police sergeant (55 years of age) who seemed, at first, interested in me. To make a long story short, he never tried traditional sex, just oral. Also, he never could get or hold erection during our intimacy. This is the first experience I have when a man is not interested in sex. For all the male audience, is this a sign that he is gay?

[DoesntMatter]

Police officers are sexually aroused by throwing harmless sellers of weed and other soft drugs into jail and providing false testimony and slanderous accusations against them to dehumanize them and publicly defame their name

He probably also has disgustingly small genitalia, am I right?

[Love Portion #9]

Yes he is small. How did you know?

[Mish]

Ussually as guys get older libido drops. I wouldn't be surprised that at 55 that's the case with your guy. If he was any younger I could say it's psychological, at his age maybe all he needs is viagra.

[DoesntMatter]

Yes he is small. How did you know?

Because he's a cop

[Junket]

He probably can't keep it up because he's very self conscious about his size.

[GrkScorp]

Premise: I recently dated a police sergeant (55 years of age) who seemed, at first, interested in me. To make a long story short, he never tried traditional sex, just oral. Also, he never could get or hold erection during our intimacy. This is the first experience I have when a man is not interested in sex.

Conclusion: For all the male audience, is this a sign that he is gay?

Huh? I'd say there's a big gap in reasoning there..

His lack on interest in "sex" doesn't mean he's gay.. After all.., he's interested in having sex with YOU isn't he? He's interested in women isn't he? It's not like he chases guys or you find gay porn all over his place.. If you were dating a priest.., I might be open to the possibility.., but you can't conclude that he's gay just because of low sex drive.., especially at his age..

Nor can you be hard on yourself and think that it's because you're out of shape.., fat.., not pretty enough.., not sexy enough.., or that you fail to turn him on sexually.. Hey! Snap out of it! It's not your fault!

If he has low sex drive.., it's easy to let your imagination run wild with all sorts of reasons and meaning behind it.., but all it means is that he just has low sex drive..

If you really want things to work with him sexually.., at least make some hint of effort.. aside from calling him gay or being hard on yourself..

Try: (not YOU.., but HIM)

- Elexia
- Steel Libido by Irwin Naturals
- Yohimbe
- Ginseng
- Horny Goat Weed
- St. John's Wort

[shh!]

Just because he can't hold an erection doesn't mean he isn't interested in sex. Men experience multiple body changes that contribute to the inability to have an erection, and it is not uncommon for a man his age. If he hasn't seen a physician, he should.

[DoesntMatter]

I can only suggest you dump this guy and start dating an actual human, that being someone who is not a cop

[1averagejoe]

Get that guy some Viagra...he's probably embarrassed he can't keep it up.

[elfen31]

Yes he is small. How did you know?

Actually I'm having the same problem with my current bf. And yes he is not necessarily well endowed. I still have doubts about his sexuality.

[ecojeanne]

i like cops

[starbuck]

Everyone hates cops, until they need to call one.

[ecojeanne]

no i like cops

[Love Portion #9]

It was approximately four months before we became intimate. During that time, he bragged that he was huge and that his past girlfriends loved the way he performed in bed. So, when the time came for us, I was disappointed that he lied. I told him that he is extremely arrogant and his response, "he earned that right to be". He also told me that he is use to women kissing his ass. If you have been with a man for 6-months, and all he can do is perform oral sex, what would you think? It is not the fact that he may have an ED problem, it is his attitude in general. Why act like he is 'DA MAN' if he can not put out? Typical behavior of a police officer!