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  1. 01-10-08, 08:28 AM #1
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    Invite to his apartment

    I dropped off my friend at his apartment and he asked me to come in.

    What do men think or want?
  2. 01-10-08, 08:35 AM #2
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    This thread is pointless. It lacks every bit of information needed for it to be answered.
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    Not really Ladie. Honestly Jenn maybe he just needed company. Don't think anything much of it right now.
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    It is pointless because we dont know what to think. We dont know if he was coming on to her or just being a friend. She has to provide us with alot more details in order for us to give an answer.
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    I got a crimewatch e-mail just the other day. I'm still on a mailing list for my university.

    Anyway, a girl invited a guy up to her room and he forced himself on her. It was 2am. This makes me scratch my head. Obviously the guy should be locked up for raping her, but what did she think was going to happen? If a girl invites me into her home at 2 in the morning there's only one reason.

    This isn't exactly related to the thread but it reminded me of that e-mail.
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    Its not pointless. Maybe she just wanted opinions. Even if you have facts, its still going to be an opinion. Anyways, maybe he wanted to be more than friends and maybe he just wanted to hang out with you longer. I'm sure you'll find out soon though.
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    opinions on what? there is no context whatsoever
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenn1234 View Post
    I dropped off my friend at his apartment and he asked me to come in.

    What do men think or want?
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    Quote Originally Posted by stsang View Post
    Its not pointless. Maybe she just wanted opinions. Even if you have facts, its still going to be an opinion. Anyways, maybe he wanted to be more than friends and maybe he just wanted to hang out with you longer. I'm sure you'll find out soon though.
    It IS pointless because without background info all we can do is assume. Gosh, you guys annoy me sometimes. Since you are such a know it all, please inform me on how you're so sure he wants her to come in to be more than friends without any valid information on the situation. I would love to know.
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    he wanted to have sex with you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenn1234 View Post
    I dropped off my friend at his apartment and he asked me to come in.

    What do men think or want?
    Quick advice. Always let a friend know your going into some guys apartment.


    Alot of men want is sex (but not always).
    I want a girl who likes to talk. ......I just dont know what to say sometimes and would rather just listen.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    I got a crimewatch e-mail just the other day. I'm still on a mailing list for my university.

    Anyway, a girl invited a guy up to her room and he forced himself on her. It was 2am. This makes me scratch my head. Obviously the guy should be locked up for raping her, but what did she think was going to happen? If a girl invites me into her home at 2 in the morning there's only one reason.

    This isn't exactly related to the thread but it reminded me of that e-mail.
    maybe she thought that he wasn't an animal and could control himself like the majority of the population. some men need training to understand that no matter what time it is and no matter how stupid they might think the situation is, the girl obviously didn't 'expect' this. some women trust men....unfortunately for them. but she will certainly know next time. lesson learned huh? stay away from men and don't trust them because it's 2am.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenn1234 View Post
    I dropped off my friend at his apartment and he asked me to come in.

    What do men think or want?
    Maybe he just want to have a cup of coffee with you.

    If his drunk and forced you to come inside, that's another story he wants you in bed.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Trista22 View Post
    Not really Ladie. Honestly Jenn maybe he just needed company. Don't think anything much of it right now.
    Wrong...

    Quote Originally Posted by stsang View Post
    Its not pointless. Maybe she just wanted opinions. Even if you have facts, its still going to be an opinion. Anyways, maybe he wanted to be more than friends and maybe he just wanted to hang out with you longer. I'm sure you'll find out soon though.
    ...and also wrong.

    Nisha is right, we need more information. Don't come on here posting acting like you know what you're talking about when you clearly don't.
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