What does his group sex/orgy fantasy mean?

[Phoenix_Blue]

Some time ago my boyfriend (a very good guy who i love and who loves me) let it slip he likes watching porn about group sex/orgies, occasionally watches the scenes over and over, finds the idea hot. What does this mean? Does it necessarily mean he'd like to try it, or that he thinks about it a lot? Could it mean he thinks/fantasizes about having sex with someone else? Or that he thinks/fantasizes about showing off for someone else? I admit I feel a bit insecure about that thought, though sometimes I like watching it too...

In 'letting it slip' it was pretty reluctantly/hesitantly, a bit shyly[? if that's the right word]- I occasionally ask him what he thinks, of what we're watching and such, curious, his fantasies, encourage him to talk freely- i just don't know if there's any hidden meaning behind what he likes to watch/what stimulates him. if it's, as i heard, more 'a guy thing' that guys aren't just easily and very visionally stimulated

[miSSleepy]

Judging from all these threads, you don't know your partner very well, do you? All of these things you're asking...the reasons behind them are probably very related.

[wow273in]

I just can't believe the loveliness of loving you. I just can't believe the one to love this feeling, too. I now know how sweet a kiss could be. Like the summer sunshine, Your sweetness over me. ---------------------------------------------------------------------[size=1]Hope this helps and wish you will like it.

[agatha]

Watching that kind of movie is somehow a sort of education. I think he's just curios of group sex. Of how it feels when you ****ed different girls. I think he wanted to try it or maybe its just his hobby watching porn movies.

[starbuck]

It's probably just a fantasy. As much as people think they like to try these things, I'm guessing that outside a porn movie with makeup and well-lit, rehearsed scenes, the reality of an orgy is much, much different than the fantasy. Has anyone ever seen the the documentary film "The Lifestyle" about swingers? It's enough to turn one off from this fantasy for good.

[Gigabitch]

Fantasizing about orgies IS hot, but only in a fantasy. In real life, it would do terrible damage to your relationship. He probably knows this and has no problem differentiating between fantasy and reality. If he doesn't, you have some major problems, but don't create them for yourself just because he likes the idea.

I suggest you watch porn with him and then **** him silly.

[doppelgaenger]

At least he doesn't fantasize about taking a huge dump on your chest.

[blackzj52]

all guys like porn.
simple, known fact
i wouldnt look into it too much.