jealousy?

[clare_b]

if a guy hangs out together with his girlfriend of two years,and his guy friends, and starts talking about some very pretty girls he met somewhere and what they did together,(really nothing acctually happened,but he talked about it in a kind of nasty way,you know,laughing with his guys and all that),and then looked at his girlfriend who was right there all the time,and said:”sorry”,and then continued talking...what do you think, is he trying to make her jealous,or he just doesn't care for her that much anymore?

and when they hang out together with his guy friends,they tease her about him and other girls,and call her jealous. the truth is the girl is not jealous,but she told her boyfriend she didn't like when he checked out other girls in front of her,braged about his exes,or told her how he got drunk and danced with some slutty girl all night. but that pissed him off and he said he couldn't stand her complaining for no real reason. do you think he might have told this to his guy friends, and that's why they make fun of her? or they're trying to tell her something by it?

what do you think about this guy,why is he acting this way, and should she dump him?

[alter_ego]

She should talk to him, VERY seriously. Make him understand how his behavior is making her feel.

She should definitely dump him if he continues his rude and disrespectful behavior.

[Bokonon]

I have to say I doubt there's any deeply thought-out motivation behind what the guy is doing. Maybe he has started doing it because he's more comfortable with the girl now that they've been together for a while and is just not censoring himself. Either way, to be honest it sounds like the guy is a bit of a jerk. Like the above poster said, if this guy isn't willing to listen to her and consider not being a prick anymore, then her boot + his ass = him flying out the door.