ok...here are my problems (or maybe i am doing the right things?) any suggestions are welcome...much appreciate..
when I am interested in a guy:
- I start to raise my "boyfriend" bar very high: i.e. after party, he didn't suggest sending me home, etc.
I know he is not my bf now and he is not obligated to do anything for me..but I just can't help doing these "screening" process on my mind...so my conclusion is usually that he is not that into me or he is not a good bf material
- I just can not treat him as a friend...people say that you should be friends first and get to know each other and then be together...
is that possible or easy for you guys to be just friends with someone you find attractive?
- I guess I just miss the idea of relationship too much...not necessarily a specific person..
would it be nice to have someone you like to share things...go movies...cook, you know, those small things in life...
I think i am beautifying the relationship too much...and imagine things too much...How could I be back to reality?