Is she interested?

[swenorth]

I've been seeing a girl, a former collegue of mine, for a couple of years now. That is, seeing as in having a coffee once in a while but we also go to the gym together.

We both have relationships separately.

Recently she has started talking a bit more about her feelings (on all different kind of topics). And also saying things like: "Look at this leaf, isn't its colors just so beautiful?"

She smiles a lot and generally seems to like my company.

Is she starting to fall in love? Or is she just being polite?

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

There is not nearly enough to determine if she has feelings for you. I believe she's just being friendly...I mean you guys are friends anyway. Dont take it too seriously.

[swenorth]

Yes, you may be right. It's just that whenever we meet we have so much fun. There's a kind of spark going between us.
But if she's just being friendly maybe I should turn down my sparking a little...

[TheGreek]

Yes, you may be right. It's just that whenever we meet we have so much fun. There's a kind of spark going between us.
But if she's just being friendly maybe I should turn down my sparking a little...

I agree with turning down your sparking. I just recently learned that the hard way. Don't show that you're too interested to fast or she'll run off. Take it slow.

[miSSleepy]

just because you have fun doesn't mean anything... and she might not be feeling those sparks herself.
she might...but she might not.
not enough information

and the leaf bit was irrelevant

[swenorth]

Okay...

What would be general signs of a girl beeing interested?

[celine]

Okay...

What would be general signs of a girl beeing interested?

touch you in any way...ask you about your interests, family, etc...

[swenorth]

Well, she doesn't touch me. I think that may be because we are both in separate relationships.
She looks at me a lot though. Smiles and laughs. Fiddles with her hair...