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Thread: can you know you're in love?

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    can you know you're in love?

    so general question because i really can't figure this out.
    i've seen a number of guys and though i'm young i've never really had feelings for them where i would compromise my feelings about let's say for example getting married or having kids. these are things that i have never wanted for my life and there is no pressure now but i'm seeing these things as maybe having the vaguest chance of happening, i mean it doesn't seem as far fetched now and it's due to the person i'm currently seeing.
    i've only been seeing this guy for 2 months and from our second date he had become obscene in my head. i am not a bubble burster so i would NOT verbalize this to him but i feel like this may be love? there's so many elements to this relationship it's weird.

    LONG STORY SHORT FOLKS....
    can you just be in love or know that you are or know that you will be? is that just some delusional fantasy, because it's never one i wanted?

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    I assume one can know they're in love, but it's difficult to judge, at a young age, whether it's love or infatuation. Because you haven't had the experience of different situations and feelings.

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    I'd like to be naive and think it's love but I think it's purely infatuation. I mean you could very well be in love but to me I think 2 months is just way to fast. I'd like to think of it as "you really really like him" lol

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    i too would like to think this....
    i was just wondering if anyone else has an incling.
    i mean, he's not the first person i've dated, yes i'm young, but i'm not sure what people are taking as young.

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    how old are you?

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