a long but simple story..thanks for reading
I met a guy from on-line dating. we had a coffee date and a romantic dinner date.
we had a casual kiss after the dinner date, the other day he asked me to go to his place.
we watched a movie and made out, but I resisted to have sex with him ( I do want to but I am a virgin, and I don't want to give it to someone that I am not sure about, he doesn't know this).
He was excited after we made out and you know, he had to finish it by his hands to..release the pressure.
I just watched it and I didn't really do much..then I insisted going home....he begged me to stay longer but finally he drove me home.
during the makeout time, he asked me twice if i wanted to be his girlfriend, and I just joked about it and said that I don't know..
On the way back he said: so we are dating...I said: are we?
before I left his car, he joked: I feel I was used for sex...
Since then, he didn't contact me that night and today as well...
so anyone can give me some suggestions about this situation? did i do anything wrong? do you think I am not gentle/sensitive enough? or maybe he just wanted to take an advantage of me and got me on the bed?
any guys' opinions?
millions of thanks!!!
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10-11-08, 08:29 AM #1
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no calls after making out
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10-11-08, 08:52 AM #2
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Celine! WTF! you cheating on me!
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10-11-08, 08:59 AM #3
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He wanted sex. But I am not shure if he ever wanted to have a relationship or not... But still you basically rejected him with the dating part imho.
Don't expect anything.
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10-11-08, 09:13 AM #4
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i am still a virgin:0
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10-11-08, 09:16 AM #5
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So the guy beat one off while you just watched because you didn't want to have sex?
Awkward...he sounds creepy, be happy he's not calling you.
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10-11-08, 09:19 AM #6
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how do you tell if a guy really likes you or just want to get you on bed?? or he tries to manipulate me by doing some dating games ?? Originally Posted by boobaa
darn it...relationship is too complicated
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10-11-08, 09:22 AM #7
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...i did get him all excited....
Originally Posted by 1averagejoe
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10-11-08, 09:46 AM #8
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Celine, averagejoe is right. That was a very strange thing for a guy to do in front of a girl he barely knows. I would run far, far away if I were you. He was a bullet dodged.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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10-11-08, 11:42 AM #9
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i think he just want sex with you
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10-11-08, 04:10 PM #10
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It's ok don't feel bad someone like him prob won't be worth it. He's gonna dump you once he gets it.
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10-11-08, 04:11 PM #11
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the best way to know if a guy is just after you for sex is to withold sex for at least, say, a month. The ones just after your vagina won't have the patience to hang around that long.
Not only is it a good filter, for the ones still left, it will increase their respect for you, because for many it is an indicator of self-worth. Additionally, it will make the guy feel like he is being given access to a something of real value, a gift shared by a priviliged few. As opposed to guy #67 just because you were a bit drunk and felt like getting laid.Is it burnin'? Well, f-ck, now you're learnin'.
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I remember when I was younger(yea Im still a youngin but you know what I mean
) I used to think if I had sex with the guy he'd stick around. Well, I learned the hard way that it's the complete opposite. There's a guy I'm currently close friends with and it's been over a year and it still hasnt really happened. He's already stated that he loves the fact that I havent given it up as fast as other girls he's been with. He likes the challenge, and he respects me alot. He wouldnt even allow me to give him head if I asked to do it LOL. He said "I respect you too much" so that told me he didnt respect girls who gave head, i guess. So yea, making the guy wait is a jillion times more worth it when you really think of it. They really respect you more because you respected yourself. They see your worth because you dont throw your pussy around like a ragdoll.
OP, dont worry your head over this guy. If he was a real man, he would have respected the fact that you didnt want to have sex and he would have carried you home no questions asked. Move on...::.*Love is giving someone the ability to break your heart but trusting them not to*.::..
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10-11-08, 05:33 PM #13
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I've never beat off in front of a girlfriend ... or even my wife. Let the guy be a ghost and not call because he's a weirdo.
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Wtf?! Where the ****'s my post?
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10-11-08, 06:56 PM #15
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He hasn't called, and won't, b/c he was after a quick lay & you weren't spreading. The fact he finished off in front of you is creepy. Stay away from this one.
OV: how many times do we have to tell you: stop doing that shit on the first date, k?
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