bf to gf or just bf-bf

[genesys4]

last week when I went to bbq party with my friends, 2 of my girl friends gave me a cold shoulder. 1 of them I haven't hang out for a month, the other one for 2 weeks.

it's not like we didn't talk with each other, we did though but on a casual manner such 'please pass me those things' and all. I don't know why but we can't even 'start' it off at a more heighten level like we used to.

at 1st, I thought it was a phase(which still could be) but then I came across an article written in the forum. it stated that those girls might feel something because 2 weeks ago, (maybe) the story of me went out with for a picnic with a woman caught their attention.

now, I didn't go out with her alone nevertheless it's the 2nd time we went out. but MOST importantly, it WASN'T a date! the woman's 6 years older than me, she's more like a sister figure to me(I'm the eldest in my family).

So,if the cold shoulder isn't just a phase and they had this thing going on against me, how should I straight things out? They (the 2 girls & other friends) have a plan going for a sightseeing this weekend. Should I tag along, and hope in the process I had the chance of explaining things out? or should I not tag along and don't care about what they think and keep dating other girls?

p/s these 2 girls are my best girl friends, and I don't want to hurt their feelings but I had to say,I kinda fell for 1 of them

[doppelgaenger]

Ask them if something is wrong. Don't apologize to them if you are not in love with them; if they are your best friends they should be happy, not jealous. If they are as close to use as your siblings, they wouldn't keep feelings from you by avoiding you with the cold shoulder and crap.