Soooo, I am a little curious/confused about my situation, any help or suggestions would be appreciated
So I met this girl several weeks ago, and was very interested in her from the start. I began speaking with her over aim to get to know her better (and consequently, got more interested in her). I asked her on a lunch date, and it seemed to go well. We talked some more, and had a dinner date, that too was fun, and went well
I asked her at the end of the 2nd date if she would be interested in a 3rd date (also what she thought of me...) Her response was... something along the lines of 'a 3rd date would be fun, but I feel bad if you keep taking me out and a relationship doesn't occur... so maybe a group/friends thing?' and 'You seem like a nice guy, I want to get to know you better'.
So... here are a few extra details from a mutual friend...
After our 2nd date, she told my friend I seemed like a sweet guy, and later unprompted said I had an impressive personality and said I was a gentleman.
Both of those signs are positive (when I heard the second part I lit up inside
)... but here is the kicker... the girl I am interested in is heavily a 'sparks' person. And after the first date, she said she didn't see any sparks from when we first met and the first date, so...
I guess my general question is, am I necessarily in a bad place so far?