ok i want to know waht you guys think
I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3years I loved him alot and i still do but just not the same as i did... We started dating while we were still in highschool and it was wierd because he got out of a relationship to be with me after we had accidently kissed... anyways we fight alot and always did we fought before we even started dating (i used to say it was just how we were) but my biggest problem with him is he wont do anything for himself... i pay his bills i cook i come home from work and i get bitched at for our room being a mess... we live with his dad because his dad is sick so we are taking care of him but i think that even if his dad wasnt sick we would still be living here because he wont get a job to help out with the rent or bills anywhere.. We moved to florida together and moved back to pensylvania and i payed for both trips he has had one construction job for 2 weeks then he quit because it was too hard... i just dont get it.. then when i told him i was tired of being taken advantage of he gets all defensive like its my fault because i dotn have my license and he has to drive me to work... i work 2 blocks away I CAN WALK.... i know i need to get my shit together and start driving but really that shouldnt be an excuse should it???
i told him last night i thought it was best if we just broke up and now its hard because i dont want to screw stuff up with his family because i love them... i think they will understand where i am coming from but i am still worried about hurting them.... also he has nothing if i leave... not even a bed... what do you think ??