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Quick back-story: Girl I am now friends with. Very pretty girl. Similar interests. In a few months (5) we will be away in another country for several weeks. Girl had boyfriend when I met her. I toned (hehe get it) things down out of respect for the relationship. I made girl to be just another girl (in my head). Girl and boyfriend broke up in mid Dec '08. Attraction for girl has since sky-rocketed.
Part 1:
How long is recovery time after a relationship? Relationship was a long one (saw pictures from March '06). 1 month I don't think she is ready for anything. But, in your experiences, when are you (on average) ready? Obviously it's very different and personal, so is there any way to detect when it would be appropriate for me to try to sliiiiiiiiide on in? Or is this strictly one of those "feel her out" situations?
Part 2:
Mentioned the trip in several months. Would hate for that to be an awkward trip due to making things somehow uncomfortable. Really wish the trip were sooner because I am sure it would work to my advantage. Problem is with the trip so far away (5 months), and a girl as pretty as she... high probability she won't stay single long (only for as long as she chooses). If it weren't for the trip I would have no problem with (potentially) making a fool of myself, however, I don't want to ruin it with awkwardness for either one of us.
Collecting opinions... ready... go!