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    Need Help In Relationship Please!

    Hello everyone i'm 22 yrs from singapore and my girlfriend from china. we been together 6 months.Now We study same class in Singapore, at the start we are so happy anything can chat about it but as time go by. Now we are facing alot of problem now like(differnt culture, no common topic, when we face each dont know how to start the ball roll but in sms we say alot).

    Honestly until now we both still dont know each every well(i.e: what she like to eat, place to hang out etc.). Normally we keep our feeling in our heart didnt tell each other that we dislike or love each other, and we normally sms each other hardly call and chat as we get to see each other 5 days per week at least? but now the feeling together is totally change. everytime we see each other, we cant talk even more then 30 minutes i gues? we did not quarrel a single time before mostly is cold war. i feel i given in too much that make me dont look who's orignal me who joke around.

    So last week i sms her and ask wheather does she still got trust and interest in me? she told me no more, her heart broken.

    The next day, after school while i sending her to work and ask her wheather should we be friend or to continue and really think what our problem is it.

    She say dont know, because if YES scare still can't slove the problem and for NO it will be shy for us keep see other at class. Hide here and there.After i drop her to work, we did kiss each other.

    I know Both of us still love each other.But What should i do in order really face our problem no matter in the end result is good or bad at least we talk our feeling out? and find topic that keep us hours and hours to chat about it.

    Hope u guys can really help me out

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    You aren't friends if you have feelings for each other. If you can't work things out, then you are both best to break contact so you can move on more quickly.

    Have that talk and then decide to either be a couple or say goodbye.

    Good luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ah_chi View Post
    Hello everyone i'm 22 yrs from singapore and my girlfriend from china. we been together 6 months.Now We study same class in Singapore, at the start we are so happy anything can chat about it but as time go by. Now we are facing alot of problem now like(differnt culture, no common topic, when we face each dont know how to start the ball roll but in sms we say alot).

    Honestly until now we both still dont know each every well(i.e: what she like to eat, place to hang out etc.). Normally we keep our feeling in our heart didnt tell each other that we dislike or love each other, and we normally sms each other hardly call and chat as we get to see each other 5 days per week at least? but now the feeling together is totally change. everytime we see each other, we cant talk even more then 30 minutes i gues? we did not quarrel a single time before mostly is cold war. i feel i given in too much that make me dont look who's orignal me who joke around.

    So last week i sms her and ask wheather does she still got trust and interest in me? she told me no more, her heart broken.

    The next day, after school while i sending her to work and ask her wheather should we be friend or to continue and really think what our problem is it.

    She say dont know, because if YES scare still can't slove the problem and for NO it will be shy for us keep see other at class. Hide here and there.After i drop her to work, we did kiss each other.

    I know Both of us still love each other.But What should i do in order really face our problem no matter in the end result is good or bad at least we talk our feeling out? and find topic that keep us hours and hours to chat about it.

    Hope u guys can really help me out
    Another example of in-text compatibility risking to be a mess in person. Learn to talk to eachother properly.

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