me vs. hand

[Indignant]

I always find it humorous that emotional people leave out some of the most important information. It's like they get so caught up in what is upsetting them in the moment, they don't mention all the reasons why they got where they are.

Then when you try to give them proper advice, or answer their question, nothing seems satisfactory to them, despite the fact you've covered every aspect of their inquiry. Then somewhere along the line, in their own desperate confusion, they more or less, accidentally drop an important detail, and suddenly, things make sense!

This girl is a drama queen man, you can tell she's young, so insecure over something so frivolous.

people leave out everything that doesn't work in their favor.

[Indignant]

i remember not too long i was laying next to a really tired man, and i was asking him to masturbate in front of me. i told him to pretend that i wasn't even there, i'd just lay there quietly. do whatever you want to do, i said, stroke yourself, think of anyone you want, i'd put a porn for you. i ended up being banged. for some reason he didn't feel tired anymore.

[lesa]

i remember not too long i was laying next to a really tired men, and i was asking him to masturbate in front of me. i told him to pretend that i wasn't even there, i'd just lay there quietly. do whatever you want to do, i said, stroke yourself, think of anyone you want, i'd put a porn for you. i ended up being banged. for some reason he didn't feel tired anymore.

You woke him up, huh? Get it...woke up. Hehe, I'm so bad.

[Lite]

Did it ever occur that he masturbates because he likes to, and that it in no way has anything to do with whether or not you please him in bed?

Seriously, if I wake up in the morning and feel like masturbating I'm going to do it. It doesn't matter if my wife is out of the house, or next to me in bed. Men masturbate, they do it often. Any guy who says he doesn't masturbate is lying or impotent.

Get over your insecurity, because it isn't ****ing about you. He does it because he likes it, not because of anything you do or do not do.

[Lite]

i remember not too long i was laying next to a really tired man, and i was asking him to masturbate in front of me. i told him to pretend that i wasn't even there, i'd just lay there quietly. do whatever you want to do, i said, stroke yourself, think of anyone you want, i'd put a porn for you. i ended up being banged. for some reason he didn't feel tired anymore.

You know, there's basically a certain time of day in which my body just physically gives out. I don't care what I'm doing, but I'll fall asleep in the middle of whatever it is at about 3:00 am to 4:00 am. It doesn't matter if I'm masturbating, in the middle of sex, or trying to get the wife off.

My body just gives out. Done. Hell, I passed out so badly on the wife once that she hit me on the ass as hard as she could and I didn't even stop snoring.

[Vodka]

masurbate as is humanly possible. Whenever and however.

[misombra]

Seriously, if I wake up in the morning and feel like masturbating I'm going to do it. It doesn't matter if my wife is out of the house, or next to me in bed.

now that, imo, is taking it a little too far. but hey, different strokes for different folks, no?

[boobaa]

I don't get it, how can some men never stop masturbating? Even have loads of sex and still have to masturbate every day. No self control? So attached to nasty habits?

[vashti]

It's probably already been said (I haven't read the entire thread), but if he masturbates rather than have sex with you, KNOWING that you have been in the mood, I would consider that a hostile act. The question is, why is he so angry with you?

For the record, I do think masturbation is normal and healthy, but not at the expense of a sexual relationship with your partner.

[starbuck]

I think there are other things going on in the relationship as well. Didn't she mention that she works and he doesn't? Maybe she's resentful because he has more free time than she.

This isn't about masturbating is it, OP?

[DoesntMatter]

i remember not too long i was laying next to a really tired man, and i was asking him to masturbate in front of me. i told him to pretend that i wasn't even there, i'd just lay there quietly. do whatever you want to do, i said, stroke yourself, think of anyone you want, i'd put a porn for you. i ended up being banged. for some reason he didn't feel tired anymore.

Sweeeetttt

[vashti]

I think there are other things going on in the relationship as well. Didn't she mention that she works and he doesn't?

If this were a prolonged situation, I'd be annoyed, too.

[Lite]

I don't get it, how can some men never stop masturbating? Even have loads of sex and still have to masturbate every day. No self control? So attached to nasty habits?

Nasty habit? I'm sorry, but your puritanical roots are showing.

[Lite]

If this were a prolonged situation, I'd be annoyed, too.

Right, but if he's say, depressed it may be easier for him emotionally to jack off than to find the energy to sleep with his partner. You know, because he maybe feels like a failure or something.

Or, maybe the OP has managed to piss him off so badly he'd rather go jack off than sleep with her. Or, maybe she has some funk and he doesn't want to tell her. Or, maybe he just doesn't like her. Or, maybe she's boring in bed.

Or a million and one reasons why someone wouldn't want to sleep with someone else.

[vashti]

Right, but if he's say, depressed it may be easier for him emotionally to jack off than to find the energy to sleep with his partner. You know, because he maybe feels like a failure or something.

Or, maybe the OP has managed to piss him off so badly he'd rather go jack off than sleep with her. Or, maybe she has some funk and he doesn't want to tell her. Or, maybe he just doesn't like her. Or, maybe she's boring in bed.

Or a million and one reasons why someone wouldn't want to sleep with someone else.

So what you are saying is that basically, it all boils down to him being to wimpy to tell her the truth?