Before you can enter into a new relationship you have to end and come to terms with the last one.... somewhere along the line your girlfriend forgot that. Somewhere along the line, you failed to remind her.
You both are reaping what you sow...
her heart can never heal so long as she tears at the wound through all her pining - thus never having the capacity to really love you...
your heart can never accept what is not being offered - her love - you don't have it, but you keep tearing at your heart searching for the love you've never received from her... essentially pining for her...
The process has to be this:
She breaks up with him > has closure > starts a new relationship > both give and take love while in this relationship
This is what you have:
She breaks up > no closure > starts a new relationship > she gives her love to him while takes your love, but doesn't give back to you
In a healthy relationship... what you give out is replaced by what she gives to you.. and thus a balance is formed.
In the relationship that you have.. what you give out is not replaced because she gives you nothing... and thus there is no balance and eventually you will run out of resources.
Bottom line... your relationship is unhealthy and not beneficial to you. This is self-sacrifice... not love. It is suicide of the heart... and nobody wins.
Last edited by Aeradalia; 25-01-09 at 01:14 AM.
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen