Personal Advice

**Eckolution** · 04-02-09, 12:14 PM

I'm in my last year in college. I haven't dating anyone ever in my life, (well mostly, almost dating someone but mission failed) and i want just this once to have a date. Just this once i'd like to have a girlfriend.

I have this kind of personality( In my opinion):
1. I'm a good listener
2. I'm humorous
3. I'm talkative (not very, i think)
4. I'm also a moody person
5. Easy for being desperate
6. A little shy
I've always able to make friends, boys or girls. But when it comes to a matter of love using your true feelings, i just can't express my feelings to her. Do you think i have a chance to hav a nice, decent girl? What do you think of me and finally, any advice?

Thanks.

**Sonrisa** · 05-02-09, 12:31 AM

it's really difficult to base an opinion on this. are you fairly attractive?

**giveme** · 05-02-09, 04:52 AM

If you approach a girl, make sure you feel as confident as possible (even when you're shy). Compliment her, make her smile, have a chat... If you're at a party, dance with her and hold her so she feels safe with you. Keep going closer, put your hand on the back of her head (girls love it when you touch their hair) or on her cheek and kiss. This method works for me, and I think anyone can do this as long as you feel confident. Ask her number and meet her, if you really like her and she likes you, then just go for it and make sure you don't get her bored (sometimes ask her questions no one has ever asked her before, make her feel special).