Date with a Turkish guy

[elle]

What WAS that??

[Junket]

I didn't realize Elle had so many sisters.

[Tiay]

That's kind of cute!

that's what I thought

whether or not elle is a troll doesn't change the fact that yes there is that stereotype of turkish guys and I don't doubt some of them fall into it. That doesn't mean they're all like that. Plus, it's not like i'm falling in love and getting used here, if anybody's in danger of that, it's probably him.

[Junket]

Tiay is a heartbreaker!

[Tiay]

Tiay is a heartbreaker!

hey, it's better than heartbroken. man, I have baggage now

anyway, yeah, I probably should tell him my intentions. just not sure how..

[vashti]

What ARE your intentions? We can help you figure out how to word them.

[Tiay]

What ARE your intentions? We can help you figure out how to word them.

I think I just want to date and have some good times for a while. There are a bunch of reasons that I am totally not looking to settle down or fall crazily in love with him, or in fact anyone right now.
It was kind of sweet actually, we were holding hands after dinner and he suddenly had thoughtful-face so I was like "what?" and he said he was going back to turkey in three months, like this was a terrible thing. I just generally got the feeling that it was a bigger deal to him than it was to me.
I guess I just need to tell him that there are many cold hands that need warmin' out there in the world.. or something.


(oh, and as a side-note: i'm flying to germany tomorrow morning and probably wont have an internet connection there, unless I can steal some wifi.)

[bluesummer]

i'm the most reasonable person here (unlike others who want dates with Turks vs normal ppl, and don't realize that monkeys and humans can't make a couple) so i'm like the voice of sanity here pretty much...

This is hands down one of the stupidest posts I've read in awhile.

Not to mention ignorant. Yeesh.

[vashti]

I think I just want to date and have some good times for a while. There are a bunch of reasons that I am totally not looking to settle down or fall crazily in love with him, or in fact anyone right now.
It was kind of sweet actually, we were holding hands after dinner and he suddenly had thoughtful-face so I was like "what?" and he said he was going back to turkey in three months, like this was a terrible thing. I just generally got the feeling that it was a bigger deal to him than it was to me.
I guess I just need to tell him that there are many cold hands that need warmin' out there in the world.. or something.


(oh, and as a side-note: i'm flying to germany tomorrow morning and probably wont have an internet connection there, unless I can steal some wifi.)

Just tell him you only want him for his hot Turkish body and good manners, and that you want to teach him how to make the next girl happy.

[Only-virgins]

Haha Turkish.

[Tiay]

Just tell him you only want him for his hot Turkish body and good manners, and that you want to teach him how to make the next girl happy.

well, i'l try to be less blunt than that but yeah, that's pretty much it.
I'm just online at this cafe in the town I am visiting in germany to check my mail and stuff. He sent me like 4 emails saying he misses me and thought of me on valentines day and all this. eeck. I really am going to be a heartbreaker..

[Mish]

I really am going to be a heartbreaker..

Only until you meet a guy who'll steal your heart

[Tiay]

hm, ok, well, what do you make of this? Today I went to his place to watch a dvd, which, of course, I didn't really get to see a whole lot of because we made out.. a lot. And eventually got topless. Which, frankly, makes me doubt his story about being super inexperienced. I personally wouldn't have been ready to get topless a few minutes after my first time making out. Is it different for guys, is he just a natural, or is it an act?
To be honest, it's not really a huge deal. He was super sweet and I had a good evening so all's good... but I do wonder...

[Mish]

Hard to tell at this stage

But it sure does make me miss those times when I invited girls to my place under the assumption we will watch a DVD

[vashti]

I think he sounds like a master of telling you what he thinks you want to hear - not because males necessarily have the same reservations as females, but because someone inexperienced would probably struggle more with figuring out how to get your top off of you.