So Hard!!

[Philzor]

Well where do i start, I met a boy online 8 months ago we started talking alot and it ended up to be we had feelings for each other now 7 months later we are still together and love each other alot. (yes we are both boys so please dont judge or flame me because i hear alot about that already) But the sad thing is he is 16 and lives in USA and I'm 18 and live in Australia =( its the hardest thing iv ever done its so frustrating that its so hard for 2 people to be together. I'm currently saving money since a good friend in the states invited me there and would give me a job but the thing is the Visas so its the best option if i study and work if i can get the visa but first i need to finish saving. What kills me is waking up everyday knowing i cant touch or do anything with him yet and it worries me that i may not ever get the chance too which i'm hoping soon i can but having a part time job it will take time to get enough funds for the schooling fee's and other general stuff, Well thats the dilemma im wondering if anyone else has been in my shoes or is currently in the same situation.....

[Cain]

You're really willing to move to another country for someone you've never even met before?

I think a visa is the least of your problems.

[bluesummer]

Is this your first 'relationship'?

Look, moving across the ocean for someone you've never spent time with in person is very risky. Very. A friend of my fiance's moved across the country to be with some women he'd met online just a few months ago, and the word is he's moving back already.

I know it seems incomprehensible, but I'd save your money and keep the relationship long distance. Evenutally one of you is going to get bored and move on. That's a promise.

[LonelyLoveHeart]

Wait until you both have the cash and then take a holiday together somewhere.

Not Australia, not the US. Somewhere else.

Just to get to know each other on neutral territory and in real life. It can work out, it really can - but you need to get to know each other in real life before you move anywhere. I'm not saying this person is a liar, or a fake - but people are without a doubt, different offline than online. You need to spend some time together before making that decision - but it can work out.

[Philzor]

No not planning to move there FOR him lol as my other friend lives hours flight away so i probably wont even see him alot because its hours away and i hope to be studying and working alot

[Junket]

16 means he's not of legal consent yet, which means he's living in mommy's house.

You should get familiar with American culture (and law) before you pull any stunts.

[Cain]

Wait until you both have the cash and then take a holiday together somewhere.

Not Australia, not the US. Somewhere else.

Just to get to know each other on neutral territory and in real life. It can work out, it really can - but you need to get to know each other in real life before you move anywhere. I'm not saying this person is a liar, or a fake - but people are without a doubt, different offline than online. You need to spend some time together before making that decision - but it can work out.

This won't happen for quite a while since the kid that he's interested in is 16 years old. That means that he's not doing anything until he's at least 18.

[Philzor]

This won't happen for quite a while since the kid that he's interested in is 16 years old. That means that he's not doing anything until he's at least 18.

Yeah, Nothing to serious until he is old enough the main thing is i "Might" to to USA where i would study and work and him and me fly and meet each other sometimes.