So my boyfriend's 21st birthday is coming up. I won't be 21 for another 2 months. Last week he told me that he was going to the bars at midnight with his roommate and a friend from school. I was fine with that. But now, the group has grown to include some more people including a girl that his roommate is friends with and a girl in one of his classes and some other people.
I felt hurt that he had invited all of these people to what he now calls his "party" because he didn't invite me. I know I'm not 21 yet, so is it right that I feel hurt? I asked him if I could go too, and he said "no, he doesnt make the rules (about me not being able to get in since im not 21 yet)". I even offered to be the designated driver, but he said that he didnt want me to do that because I had school the next morning.
Do I have a right to be upset, or am I blowing it out of proportion?