He loves an online game more than me? (Contains nerdyness)

[Li'l Kate]

Well, I've been dating this guy for a good few months now (About 5).
He's 18 and from the UK. We met online on this massive multi player online game called "Guild Wars" (I'm a nerd, what else can you expect? xD)
When I met him in real life I wasn't so sure about the whole 'meet your online date' thing, but he turned out to be really nice. He was sweet, caring and he absolutely adored me.

We both love each other intensely, but lately, things seem to be going a bit iffy between us. I've moved away from Guild Wars but it seems he cant keep away from it. He's almost always online trying to keep his guild up and running (He's leader of the guild) and always trying to earn gold for it (Gold is the in-game currency used).

What I'd like is for him to spend more time and talk with me rather than playing a silly game. I've even tried logging in to Guild Wars to talk to him from there.Apparently I'm always asking at the wrong time and he even one set himself to an 'Offline' status just so I can't talk to him. (He was still playing. Offline simply means nobody can message him)

As he's going into the army soon and been studying hard for it, last night he compared it to how I interrupt him from playing (We had an argument over it):

'Okay, fine. When I'm in the army in the battlefield with gunfire going off, I'll stop to answer my phone when you call and we can have a chat.'

Being in the army in the middle of battle does not compare to a game! I really need help and I'm not sure of how to talk to him. I love him too much to hurt his feelings.


EDIT: I finally got to chat with him.

Me: Are you still there?
Me: I have the feeling that sometimes you like this game more than me.
Him:if you say so, think that then do so.
Him:this is a game in teh first place, and i dont believe your coming to meet me anyways
Me: You don't talk to me often. You're always busy doing something else.
Him: ye try it its fun
Me: ...
Him: i wouldnt be so annoyed right now IF you wernt so obsessive
Him: its like if you let me go you die or something like that
Him: when thats not true
Him: give me space is all i ask but nope, i tried telling you this before
Him: but still no
Him: ..
Him: so what else can i do hm?
Me: I can't help it if I love you...
Him: you can its your choice if you do
Him: all i want is some space
Him: its not like im running away
Him: if i wanted to get away from you' id av done it by now
Me: Do you love me?
Him: ye or i wouldnt have sppent so much cash deleting a necro and spending it on a new 1 after you

I copied this word-from-word from the chat box.

Notes:
I don't remember him telling me to leave him alone.
We, or I, plan to meet him again in the summer.

[Indignant]

OMG, he is so funny!!!!

[Indignant]

oh yeah, but if you can't respect his hobby, especially with him being a leader of the guild, then you should let him go and stop this torture. he probably already resents meeting you. he must've gotten a wrong impression of you thinking that you are into the game as much as he is, and now that you are done with it, he sees you as a whole different annoying person who stalks him at every chance.

[Cain]

What did you expect?

Seriously...

[Indignant]

ha ha ha, I want a necro named after me!!!

[Li'l Kate]

What did you expect?

Seriously...

Thanks, that makes me feel tons better...

[Cain]

Thanks, that makes me feel tons better...

Well think about it. What did you expect? You know how much he plays this game. Did you expect him to just stop?

What in the hell is it with everyone meeting people in these damn MMOs? I don't understand it. Do you really have that difficult of a time meeting someone in real life that you have to meet through a game?

What did you expect to gain from this relationship? He doesn't live near you. He obviously has no life. He's going into the military. Do you expect him to marry you?

[Li'l Kate]

You could have posted in a much more polite manner than just blurting it out in a seemingly bad attitude.

[Gribble]

The way he writes makes me want to smack him.

[Cain]

You could have posted in a much more polite manner than just blurting it out in a seemingly bad attitude.

I'm not your daddy. I don't have to respond to you in a polite manner.

[Decastro]

'Okay, fine. When I'm in the army in the battlefield with gunfire going off, I'll stop to answer my phone when you call and we can have a chat.'

LOL, genius. I ROFL for some minutes at that.

OMG, he is so funny!!!!

I agree, he made me lul on several occasions.

[Li'l Kate]

I'm not your daddy. I don't have to respond to you in a polite manner.

Well it'd help.

Forget it. As all but one of everyone's replies has aided me even slightly, I give up. I'm dumping him.

[Cain]

Well it'd help.

Help what?

Me being polite will make your bf want to talk to you more?

The issue here isn't that I'm not responding to you in the tone that you want me to. The issue is that your bf obviously values this game over you. You're second place.

Why don't you do the smart thing and break up with him... and then find someone that WANTS to spend time with you.

[Li'l Kate]

Help what?

I was worried for the relationship. What I meant was it would've helped to make me feel slightly better.
You might have had an issue in some sort of relationship before where you felt worried about it.
Last thing you may have wanted was someone with attitude talking to you like the relationship was doomed from the start; all for nothing.

[Junket]

I support the break up.

Find someone closer to home.