The girl ive been seeing for 7 months had cosmetic surgery (tummy tuck and Breast enhancement) in Jan. Up to that point things were great. We discussed the plans, recovery time she needed.ect.
Last I saw her was there with her when she was going to th operating room.
Now I realized she needed recovery time and we texted and talked a few times during the 1st couple of weeks. Now it is 5 weeks and she has all but shut me off. no returning calls, text or email. I know she better, out and up and with friends and family. ANy ide why she is doing this? We were friends, lovers and all was good. Now nothing.No returned calls, I ask to just see her , nothing...Any advise?
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08-03-09, 11:55 PM #1
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Relationship After cosmetic Surgery? She Dissapeared
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09-03-09, 12:12 AM #2
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Maybe she's really hot now and she's screwing other guys?
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09-03-09, 12:55 AM #3
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She has confidence now. She's doing things in a whole new way, with a new attitude, with a new look. Don't text her for a while. Go hang out and have a good time.
If you decide to text her again after a couple of weeks, don't mention anything about your previous relationship because it's obvious she doesn't want to be with you; at least right now she doesn't. LOL! So I would just text her "friend style" and ask her what shes been up to? How's life treating her and so forth.
Get over her and move on.
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09-03-09, 01:18 AM #4
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Apparently she was all about looks... and seems to think she can do better than you now. It's sad, but I've heard about such things happening an awful lot after a woman undergoes cosmetic surgery.
In all seriousness... what kind of values and self-confidence could a woman possibly have if she has to undergo the scalpel just to feel good about herself?"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
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13-03-09, 02:03 AM #5
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wow what a bich.. id say u shouldnt even try to contact her anymore than u already have, wait till she contacts you, cause if u cont. to do so u might look desperate and needy, might creep her out
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13-03-09, 05:05 AM #6
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If you really need closure on this then come see her. Knock on her door and ask for answers.
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13-03-09, 05:15 AM #7
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this is kind of a familiar structure to another thread i answered already today....anyway leave it, if she is interested she will contact you again, move on with your life
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13-03-09, 05:31 AM #8
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This is why I don't get with ugly bitches. Plus the sex sucks.
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Maybe you just suck. Originally Posted by Only-virgins
Do you consider yourself an expert after two partners?I don't chase, I replace.
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17-03-09, 03:42 AM #10
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Maybe they ****ed up her surgery and gave her a breast tuck and a tummy enhancement. She's too embarrassed to let you see.
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17-03-09, 05:34 AM #11
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I apologize... but tea nearly went everywhere on that comment..
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen
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17-03-09, 09:42 AM #12
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johnny... i'll admit that this can be a cruel world. in this case, you asked for an answer, and i'm sure that more than likely, you got the truth about your girl... or is it safe to say ex gf??
anyhow, you're probably a sweet guy and better off with her...
wtf am i giving advice in this crap... i sound gay hahaha.
raverboy...this is just my perspective on the situation...
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17-03-09, 09:46 AM #13
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omg that was totally gay.
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
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17-03-09, 09:50 AM #14
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oh stop it.....
raverboy...this is just my perspective on the situation...
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17-03-09, 09:55 AM #15
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All you need is a lisp and you'll be complete Illusional...
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
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