Im unhappily married with a child, I met a girl online who I adore , lied about my status and age, visited her in the country she lives,we had a fantastic relaitionship physical and she wants to be with me forever bear in mind i was desperatly in love with her. I can never tell her the truth, now she wants to visit me which of course can never happen, I have to end the relatioship for the best, it measn im trapped in my marraige and the person I love will never understand why im ending it.
yes i lied
yes i cheated yes i feel bad
but unless i told i would go mad
please dont slag me off just comment
i need help the guilt and my feelings are driving me nuts
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10-03-09, 04:09 AM #1
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ive done a bad thing
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10-03-09, 04:12 AM #2
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Does your wife know what you've been up to?
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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10-03-09, 04:15 AM #3
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Come clean, you jerk. Maybe your wife will dump your ass and you'll be free to be with the girl you love so much that you lied to her about absolutely everything.
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10-03-09, 04:17 AM #4
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he said CHILDREN are involved Giga.
make sure your wife never finds out what happened. try to be as nice as possible to the new girl, lie if needed. don't traumatize either one of them.The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness, can be trained to do most things
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10-03-09, 04:18 AM #5
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no one knows i am a jerk and i need to stop , before everyone gets hurt
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10-03-09, 04:19 AM #6
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I think he'll do it again.
And again, and again, and again.Spammer Spanker
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10-03-09, 04:21 AM #7
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I accept that I need to stop I am trying its not easy hence the posts
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10-03-09, 04:27 AM #8
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i can never let the girl visit me for obvious reasons, i cant face not having her in my life I have to somehow right the wrong ive done. If I told her the truth it would break her heart
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10-03-09, 04:29 AM #9
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no need to repeat yourself, how old are the kids?
The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness, can be trained to do most things
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10-03-09, 04:31 AM #10
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one age 9 i cant walk away from my wife but never my child
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10-03-09, 04:31 AM #11
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how old are you? where are you from?
The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness, can be trained to do most things
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10-03-09, 04:33 AM #12
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under 45 from UK wont be more specific than that
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10-03-09, 04:34 AM #13
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So what are you going to do, pris? Just disappear? That's far more cruel than telling her the truth.
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10-03-09, 04:34 AM #14
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what kind of work do you do?
The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness, can be trained to do most things
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10-03-09, 04:36 AM #15
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i will tell her the distance thing is a deal breaker, hassle with visas and money etc will make it so we split, I hate to hurt her but I feel i was blinded into this deception by my feelings towards her. I feel very guilty about it
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