Second Date?

[TheTooya]

So... I am interested in asking someone on a second date (she seem interested in me(?) ), but there is a minor issue... I am a junior in college, shes is a grad student graduating in 3 months. Would continuing to ask her out, etc... be a bad idea?

[Mish]

So... I am interested in asking someone on a second date (she seem interested in me(?) ), but there is a minor issue... I am a junior in college, shes is a grad student graduating in 3 months. Would continuing to ask her out, etc... be a bad idea?

That depends on what you expect out of this. What would you like to happen?

[TheTooya]

Bah! I guess my question begs to be answered with more questions. I know the answer: "I don't know" is a good answer :p So the deal is, I asked her out on the first date, despite the whole shes graduating thing, simply because I felt like it. We had fun, and I was glad I asked her out... ^_^. I kind of shut my mind off the first time (because this question came into mind the first time around too), should I just ignore it and go with the flow?

[carl1222]

Because she's leaving soon, I suppose the real answer is ... if by dating her, you are running the risk of getting attached, then it's probably not a good idea to keep pursuing her. But if it's just for a good time for both of you, why not?

Carl.

[GemStar]

I think you might as well go with your gut feeling if it's early-on. I've dated three girls who are 10 years my senior so definitely the difference in your lives doesn't necessarily have to be a barrier. I guess I should also mention that none of those relationships of mine ending in anything but maddening, unending pain. Well.. good luck!

[TheTooya]

I really could care less about the age gap (which is only 1 year mind you), its the expiration date thats kinda... weird I guess. But, Carls advice was very helpful