what can i do?

[shadowhunter]

me and my ex have been broken up now for about 1 month and 2 days now. we still had a little bit of contact i tried my best to not really chat to her but she just happended to be on msn and we were chatting through that but i never called her...we had happended to see each other at university a couple times as well..she seemed to be in good spirits but anyways today we had a long chat..i was hoping we could have gotten back to together but it didnt happen.. she was telling me stuff like when we were in a relationship she didnt seem to fit in or like something was missing and she didnt know what it was..could anybody tell me? i told her lets just be good friends for now then she insisted and said "best friends" becase we didnt have any problems in our relationship. we were going out for 2 and a half months then the break up happended and i really found it tough because i just new this girl was right for me and we were both happy in it..and she said she still misses the times we spent and everything like that..also when she had to go today she held face and kissed me on the nose then i kissed her on the cheek..then when we hugged and i told her thank you for talking it over with me..im just wondering what can i do to get back with her? we are best friends now so and we were planning on going to a movie next week but she was just afraid i would bring up the break up thing so she was gonna think about it if we should go.....but if someone could please tell me what i can possibly do now to get her back in this relationship? and how i can make her feel there is nothing missing? because i cant see it

[Cbrider]

She's made up her mind about not bing together. Cut your losses and bite the bullet, it hurts but not as much as dragging it out will. You wont change her mind with any actions, she recognized a lack of chemistry, theres nothing you can do about that its a phenomenon of nature.

I would suggest you make space between the two of you, from what you have said I am pretty sure you wont heal with her in continuous contact. No more kissing or any kind for your own sake.

[shadowhunter]

uggh its just so hard because she was just soo good to me and we had such a good relationship. i have never felt this way before about a girl..but the main reason we broke up was because something i said but i was completely sorry for for saying it and she forgave me but i reminded her of her ex bf and he thoguht that she was chetaing on him and i didnt and i told her that and cried at the same time that i was sorry. when we broke up she told me she didnt want to but she couldnt be in a relationship at the time because the way she was feeling. and she told me if there is anyone she would rather be with its me...
but in the conversation we had today she told me another part why she broke up is because something was missing she didnt know what it was. she told me she misses the times we had together and i beleive that we will soon get back together..i just cant see us not getting back together..we were soo good its amazing i met her..ut im happy for still best friends and she wanted to be best friends..so many we will fall for each other again down there road...never say never..but i am gonna try and move on but i am always gonna have a spot in my heart with her..

but people there has to be way so that she can feel good again and wanna get back with me some day?