Monk, anyone?
Everybody seems to have problems here concerning what to do with someone they like, how to get the attention of the opposite sex, what to do about a conflict in a current relationship, etc.
To anyone I have answered about their problems, I am sorry. If it had to deal with dating, maybe I shouldn't have answered it. I wouldn't know anything about it; I haven't had a single girlfriend in my life. All my comments are solely based on my aspirations of what love and that one girl that I've wanted to meet this whole time.
I don't know much in this area, due to the lack of experience. I know that whatever I say is worthless, as it comes from someone who hasn't even been in a relationship.
I've tried being assertive and asking girls, especially after I have liked her for a while and feel that I could have a long term relationship with her. The girl has said no every time that I've asked, and there have been many other times when I was really beginning to like her when I found out that she either doesn't like me or has feelings for someone else (or maybe even already have a boyfriend).
Things have gotten to the point to where once I begin to like a girl, I just learn to get over it. It would save me the hurt, right?
So, I wonder what monk-hood would be like, even though I am not really a religious person. My reasons are because since I cannot get what I have wanted most for a long time (or even get the chance to have it), I figure that I should devote myself to a cause where my diligence, passion, and other traits to good use instead of them keeping me in this eternal torture and these talents being wasted. It may be the way that I could best contribute to this world.
Monks have to take an oath of silence, right? That would be hard, but not that hard... I am innately pretty shy. Shaving my head would be easy... it would keep me cooler during the summer. I don't really know much about this, so I'd like to know from somebody who knows someone who is a monk.
Thanks
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