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    Mon girlfriend just broke up with me =(

    Desole this is mon first time being in a forum like this and do not mind me for my poor anglias as I am French.

    Basically, I dated this girl for about 2 months and I really love her a lot. What happened was we broke up today. I do not know how to start off but here is a sample of the chat log:

    (12:40 PM) Aloysius: I told you they are all very nice people.
    (12:41 PM) ♠ space of aids.: They're not.
    (12:41 PM) Aloysius: Why are you so biased to them?
    (12:41 PM) Aloysius: They are really nice people.
    (12:42 PM) ♠ space of aids.: No they're not
    (12:42 PM) ♠ space of aids.: You haven't been through the same things I have with them.
    (12:42 PM) Aloysius: I do not want to argue with you about this.
    (12:42 PM) ♠ space of aids.: They're biased towards me so I am to them.
    (12:42 PM) ♠ space of aids.: You won't change my mind.
    (12:42 PM) Aloysius: Non they are not!
    (12:42 PM) Aloysius: Stop saying that.
    (12:43 PM) Aloysius: Desole.
    (12:43 PM) Aloysius: I forgot you are mon girlfriend.
    (12:43 PM) Aloysius: Well Nicole is very nice to me.
    (12:43 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Well duh.
    (12:43 PM) Aloysius: She likeeeeees me.
    (12:43 PM) Aloysius: (A)
    (12:44 PM) ♠ space of aids.: To be perfectly honest, I don't want to be with someone who is such close friends with them.
    (12:44 PM) Aloysius: I am not close friends with them.
    (12:45 PM) Aloysius: And if you really love me, you should accept me for what I am.
    (12:45 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Obviously you are.
    (12:45 PM) Aloysius: I am not!
    (12:45 PM) ♠ space of aids.: You're defending them.
    (12:45 PM) Aloysius: Non
    (12:45 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Yes.
    (12:45 PM) Aloysius: I am just speaking from my experience
    (12:45 PM) ♠ space of aids.: You're defending them.
    (12:45 PM) Aloysius: I do not really know them well.
    (12:45 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Saying NO THEY'RE NOT BIASED TO YOU!
    (12:46 PM) Aloysius: You know them better than me
    (12:46 PM) ♠ space of aids.: THEY'RE REALLY NICE!
    (12:46 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Exactly.
    (12:46 PM) Aloysius: Ok I am desoleeee.
    (12:46 PM) Aloysius: Desoleeeee ok?
    (12:46 PM) ♠ space of aids.: So don't ****ing give me any shit about them being decent people.
    (12:46 PM) Aloysius: -soupir-
    (12:46 PM) ♠ space of aids.: No I dont' want to hear your Desole.
    (12:46 PM) Aloysius: But they are ok.
    (12:46 PM) Aloysius: I am not defending them.
    (12:47 PM) Aloysius: But they are nice to me.
    (12:47 PM) ♠ space of aids.: They are not ok.
    (12:47 PM) Aloysius: Is it only you who feel like this or everyone else?
    (12:48 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Everyone I know.
    (12:48 PM) Aloysius: Andrei do not.
    (12:48 PM) Aloysius: Just do not speak bad of them.
    (12:49 PM) Aloysius: Desolee Sarah.
    (12:49 PM) Aloysius: I am always on your side you should know that.
    (12:49 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Andrei does.
    (12:49 PM) ♠ space of aids.: No you're not.
    (12:49 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Obviously youre not.
    (12:49 PM) ♠ space of aids.: You're blatantly saying that you think they're nice people.
    (12:49 PM) Aloysius: space of aids. says:
    To be perfectly honest, I don't want to be with someone who is such close friends with them.
    Aloysius says:
    (12:49 PM) Aloysius: You are already with me. (A)
    (12:50 PM) ♠ space of aids.: And I'll speak how ever I want about who ever I want.
    (12:50 PM) ♠ space of aids.: What's your point?
    (12:50 PM) Aloysius: Not even an exception to your own boyfriend?
    (12:50 PM) ♠ space of aids.: No.
    (12:50 PM) Aloysius: Pourquoi?
    (12:50 PM) Aloysius: I like Nicole.
    (12:50 PM) Aloysius: Do not speak bad of her.
    (12:51 PM) Aloysius: Ok we shall not talk about Leon and his friends in future ok?
    (12:51 PM) Aloysius: Jet' aimeeeeee.
    (12:51 PM) ♠ space of aids.: I ****ing hate Nicole.
    (12:51 PM) ♠ space of aids.: She's a stupid bitch.
    (12:51 PM) Aloysius: Non!
    (12:51 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Who can go such her dad's cock.
    (12:51 PM) Aloysius: Non!
    (12:51 PM) Aloysius: Non!
    (12:51 PM) ♠ space of aids.: And choke herself to death with it.
    (12:51 PM) Aloysius: Vas te faire encule
    (12:51 PM) Aloysius: What is your problem?
    (12:51 PM) ♠ space of aids.: After her mum maked her bleed almost to death after raping her with a meat cleaver.
    (12:51 PM) ♠ space of aids.: They are my problem.
    (12:52 PM) Aloysius: Non!
    (12:52 PM) Aloysius: Stop it please.
    (12:52 PM) ♠ space of aids.: No.
    (12:52 PM) Aloysius: Please.
    (12:52 PM) ♠ space of aids.: No.
    (12:52 PM) Aloysius: Don't.
    (12:52 PM) Aloysius: Please.
    (12:52 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Get screwed.
    (12:52 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Or go screw Nicole.
    (12:52 PM) ♠ space of aids.: What ever.
    (12:52 PM) ♠ space of aids.: I don't care.
    (12:52 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Just not me.
    (12:52 PM) Aloysius: I don't want to screw her.
    (12:52 PM) Aloysius: Just do not insult her.
    (12:53 PM) ♠ space of aids.: **** Esmee then.
    (12:53 PM) Aloysius: Please.
    (12:53 PM) Aloysius: Non!
    (12:53 PM) ♠ space of aids.: SHE'S A STUPID ****ING PRUDISH LITTLE SHIT.
    (12:53 PM) Aloysius: I do not want that either.
    (12:53 PM) ♠ space of aids.: AND SHE CAN GO BURN IN A HOLE.
    (12:53 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Oh don't give me that bullshit.
    (12:53 PM) Aloysius: I am already with you Sarah bebe!
    (12:53 PM) ♠ space of aids.: You know as well as I do that you would **** the living daylights out of her.
    (12:53 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Not any more.
    (12:53 PM) Aloysius: I never say that!
    (12:53 PM) Aloysius: Ok Ok
    (12:53 PM) Aloysius: Listen to me.
    (12:53 PM) Aloysius: Please.
    (12:54 PM) Aloysius: Is our relationship going to be affected just because of Nicole?
    (12:54 PM) Aloysius: ♠ space of aids. says:
    Not any more.
    (12:54 PM) Aloysius: What do you mean by this?
    (12:54 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Aloysius says:

    I am already with you Sarah bebe!
    I say:

    Not any more.
    (12:54 PM) Aloysius: You want to break up with me?
    (12:54 PM) ♠ space of aids.: What do you think it means?
    (12:55 PM) Aloysius: You want to break up with me?
    (12:55 PM) Aloysius: Just answer me
    (12:55 PM) Aloysius: I will like to make it very clear to you.
    (12:55 PM) Aloysius: I never love Nicole right from the start.
    (12:56 PM) Aloysius: I only love you.
    (12:56 PM) Aloysius: And I spoke up for her because she was nice to me and you are insulting and cursing her.
    (12:56 PM) Aloysius: If she has said that to you, I would also have done the same to her.
    (12:57 PM) Aloysius: Sarah bebe you understand?
    (12:57 PM) ♠ space of aids.: No.
    (12:57 PM) Aloysius: You do know that Aloysius love you.
    (12:57 PM) ♠ space of aids.: YOu have to do it for me.
    (12:57 PM) ♠ space of aids.: I was your girlfriend.
    (12:57 PM) Aloysius: Ouii I will do it for you.
    (12:57 PM) Aloysius: Ok I promise.
    (12:57 PM) ♠ space of aids.: She was just some bitch.
    (12:57 PM) Aloysius: I will never speak up for her anymore.
    (12:57 PM) ♠ space of aids.: That your girlfriend hates.
    (12:57 PM) Aloysius: Ok I understand.
    (12:57 PM) ♠ space of aids.: I don't care what you do anymore.
    (12:57 PM) Aloysius: I know you care.
    (12:57 PM) ♠ space of aids.: It's not my problem.
    (12:57 PM) Aloysius: Because I am your boyfriend.
    (12:58 PM) ♠ space of aids.: No you're not.
    (12:58 PM) ♠ space of aids.: I said it.
    (12:58 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Many times.
    (12:58 PM) Aloysius: Ouii I am!
    (12:58 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Not any more.
    (12:58 PM) Aloysius: Sarah!!

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    (12:58 PM) Aloysius: Please!
    (12:58 PM) Aloysius: Non!
    (12:58 PM) Aloysius: Non don't
    (12:58 PM) Aloysius: Please
    (12:58 PM) Aloysius: Desoleeeee
    (12:58 PM) Aloysius: Sarah bebe!
    (12:59 PM) Aloysius: You are breaking up with me just because of this?!
    (12:59 PM) Aloysius: You just said our relationship can last.
    (12:59 PM) Aloysius: You will NEVER break up with me no matter what.
    (12:59 PM) Aloysius: We are going to meet up at the end of the year.
    (12:59 PM) Aloysius: Sarah I promise I will never mention Nicole anymore anymore.
    (12:59 PM) Aloysius: I hate Nicole
    (12:59 PM) Aloysius: I hate Nicole
    (1:00 PM) Aloysius: Ok?
    (1:00 PM) Aloysius: Please.
    (1:00 PM) Aloysius: Aloysius loveeeeeeeeeee Sarah bebe
    (1:00 PM) Aloysius: Desoleeee.
    (1:00 PM) Aloysius: Please.
    (1:00 PM) Aloysius: I love you.
    (1:00 PM) Aloysius: I really do.
    (1:03 PM) Aloysius: ♠ space of aids. says:
    You know as well as I do that you would **** the living daylights out of her.
    (1:03 PM) Aloysius: I will never want to do it!
    (1:03 PM) Aloysius: I only want to **** mon Sarah bebe!
    (1:03 PM) Aloysius: Remember we are still planning to meet up in Germany at the end of the year?
    (1:03 PM) Aloysius: You cannot give me up so easily just because of Nicole!
    (1:03 PM) Aloysius: You do know very well that I love you.
    (1:04 PM) Aloysius: If I do not love you, I would not be talking to you now, I am sick like coughing really badly and having flue.
    (1:04 PM) Aloysius: I care for you.
    (1:04 PM) Aloysius: To be honest, I do not really give a dam about Nicole.
    (1:05 PM) Aloysius: She has too many friends in her life to even bother about me.
    (1:05 PM) Aloysius: But you are different.
    (1:05 PM) Aloysius: You are mon girlfriend.
    (1:05 PM) Aloysius: Sarah you are mon girlfriend.
    (1:05 PM) ♠ space of aids.: No I'm not.
    (1:05 PM) Aloysius: Oui you are.
    (1:05 PM) Aloysius: Ok?
    (1:05 PM) ♠ space of aids.: No.
    (1:05 PM) Aloysius: Give me a second chance?
    (1:05 PM) Aloysius: I will not screw it up again.
    (1:06 PM) Aloysius: Tell me what Aloysius did!
    (1:06 PM) Aloysius: What wrong did he do?
    (1:06 PM) Aloysius: oh mon dieu
    (1:06 PM) Aloysius: I am not going to break up with you just because if a stupid comment like this.
    (1:06 PM) Aloysius: I hate her.
    (1:06 PM) Aloysius: Sarah!!
    (1:06 PM) ♠ space of aids.: No.
    (1:07 PM) Aloysius: Do you love me?
    (1:07 PM) ♠ space of aids.: I don't want to be with you.
    (1:07 PM) Aloysius: But I want to be with you.
    (1:07 PM) Aloysius: Tell me what did I do.
    (1:07 PM) Aloysius: I am not even close friends with them oh mon dieu!!
    (1:08 PM) |I{•------» George «------•}I| has been added to the conversation.
    (1:08 PM) Leon has been added to the conversation.
    (1:08 PM) Aloysius: George and Leon
    (1:08 PM) Aloysius: Can you help me clarify things?
    (1:08 PM) Aloysius: I really am not close friends with you all right?
    (1:08 PM) Leon: What's going on?
    (1:09 PM) Aloysius: Just tell mon Sarah I am not close to you all.
    (1:09 PM) ♠ space of aids.: They're blocked.
    (1:09 PM) ♠ space of aids.: I can't see what they're typing.
    (1:09 PM) Leon: Well I have no idea what the hell is going on but Sarah if you're afraid that Aloy is close to Nicole, it's completely bullshit.
    (1:09 PM) ♠ space of aids.: So don't bother.
    (1:10 PM) Aloysius: Leon says:
    Well I have no idea what the hell is going on but Sarah if you're afraid that Aloy is close to Nicole, it's completely bullshit.
    ♠ space of aids. says:
    So don't bother.
    *
    * ♠ space of aids. has left the conversation.
    *

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    Leon says:
    Aloysius isn't even close to us at all.
    (1:10 PM) Aloysius: Leon never lie.
    (1:10 PM) Aloysius: Do you love me?
    (1:10 PM) Aloysius: You said I mean more to you than Brian and Josh.
    (1:10 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Leon lies.
    (1:11 PM) Aloysius: Leon lies?
    (1:11 PM) Aloysius: How?
    (1:11 PM) Aloysius: But George does not lie.
    He is very neutral.
    (1:11 PM) Aloysius: Even george tells me the same.
    (1:11 PM) Aloysius: Did Leon lie to you in the past or something?
    (1:12 PM) Aloysius: Is it because he tried to stalk you?
    (1:12 PM) Aloysius: That was ages ago anyway.
    (1:13 PM) Aloysius: If you are going to give me up just because of something so stupid we have quarelled over a relationship which is worth so much, I think it is very silly of you Sarah bebe.
    (1:14 PM) Aloysius: If you really love me and if I really mean more to you than Brian, you will not give me up so easily like that.
    (1:14 PM) Aloysius: And you should know that my feelings for you have started to change now.
    (1:15 PM) Aloysius: I still want to get married with mon Sarah bebe :*
    (1:16 PM) Aloysius: And remember I said I will bring you to Paris to shop?
    (1:16 PM) Aloysius: (A)
    (1:16 PM) Aloysius: Jet' aimeeeeeee.
    (1:19 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Aloysius.
    (1:19 PM) ♠ space of aids.: No.
    (1:20 PM) Aloysius: Alright.
    (1:20 PM) Aloysius: Maybe you should put yourself in my stand.
    (1:20 PM) Aloysius: I hate Brian.
    (1:20 PM) Aloysius: Brian hates me
    (1:20 PM) Aloysius: And I insult and curse him.
    (1:20 PM) Aloysius: How will you feel?
    (1:21 PM) Aloysius: You will speak up for him right?
    (1:21 PM) Aloysius: Can you understand?
    (1:22 PM) Aloysius: You are really giving up a relationship just like that?
    (1:22 PM) ♠ space of aids.: I would stay out of it.
    (1:22 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Yes.
    (1:22 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Yes I am.
    (1:22 PM) Aloysius: I do not want to!
    (1:22 PM) ♠ space of aids.: I don't care.
    (1:23 PM) Aloysius: Please Sarah.
    (1:23 PM) Aloysius: Give Aloysius a chance?
    (1:23 PM) Aloysius: But I am never close to them.
    (1:23 PM) ♠ space of aids.: No.
    (1:23 PM) Aloysius: And it is like my first mistake only
    (1:23 PM) ♠ space of aids.: I gave you enough chances.
    (1:23 PM) Aloysius: And taking into account how I have treated you.
    (1:24 PM) Aloysius: You noticed all three times we almost broke up was over something really silly?
    (1:25 PM) Aloysius: I have never cheated on you at all.
    (1:25 PM) Aloysius: First time was because I made a stupid comment it is mon fault.
    (1:25 PM) Aloysius: Second time it was because I had a fever I did not talk to you for 5 days and you miss me so much.
    (1:25 PM) Aloysius: Now it is because of something so silly?
    (1:25 PM) Aloysius: Sarah it is not worth it over that bitch.
    (1:26 PM) ♠ space of aids.: No.
    (1:26 PM) Aloysius: I think you are just very stressed up lately.
    (1:26 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Yeah.
    (1:26 PM) Aloysius: Can we cool down for like a few days?
    (1:26 PM) ♠ space of aids.: And I don't need you making me even more angry.
    (1:27 PM) Aloysius: Then after that, you will consider me again?
    (1:27 PM) Aloysius: Ok?
    (1:27 PM) ♠ space of aids.: What ever.
    (1:27 PM) Aloysius: I will disappear from your life.
    (1:27 PM) Aloysius: If that is what you want.
    (1:27 PM) ♠ space of aids.: I'm going to bed now.
    (1:27 PM) Aloysius: Ok.
    (1:27 PM) Aloysius: Bon Nuit!
    (1:27 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Bye.
    (1:27 PM) Aloysius: Au Revoir.
    (1:27 PM) Aloysius: Jet' aimee.
    (1:27 PM) Aloysius: Wait Sarah.
    (1:27 PM) Aloysius: I am still your boyfriend right?
    (1:27 PM) Aloysius: I will never make you angry anymore I promise.
    (1:28 PM) Aloysius: If I make you angry again, you can break off with me.
    No warning given.
    (1:29 PM) ♠ space of aids.: You're not my boyfriend.
    (1:29 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Not for the next few days.
    (1:29 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Good bye now.
    (1:29 PM) Aloysius: Ok Au Revoir.
    (1:29 PM) ♠ space of aids. is now Offline

    I admit it took me a bit of courage to paste my conversation in public as this is so personal to me but I am Francais anyway so I believe there is nothing to be embarrassed.

    After this conversation with her, I literally almost cried. I just do not think it is fair to me at all.

    Tell me what did I do?
    Where did I go wrong?
    All I did was just to speak up for a girl who was insulted by mon girlfriend and she broke up with me just because of that?!

    We almost broke up twice over really silly and petty things. I really do not want to lose her, I love her with all mon heart although she thinks that I do not but I really do.

    Please advise me what I should do to win mon girlfriend heart back and accept me again.

    Avec les Égards
    Aloysius

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    But WHY do you love her? I think she's rotten. And what would possess you to say you want to marry someone you've only dated a few months?

    Bullet dodged, Aloysius. Count your blessings.
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    Non please do not say that, she is the most perfect girl in mon heart. I love her for what she is and I do not want to give up a relationship just because of something so stupide.

    We have plans to get engaged and get married.

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    She's mean and heartless.
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    Why do you say that?!
    Non you cannot judge someone just because of a chat log. She is a really nice girl and I love her with all mon heart.

    I am here for advice not for you to insult mon girlfriend.

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    She's not your girlfriend. She just dumped you, remember? For what, the third time? I think you need to face up to the fact that you might be experiencing disrespect and mistreatment, and here's a sad fact: if you marry her, this behavior will only get worse.
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    I didn't bother to read everything sorry mate but I did catch her last words to you:

    (1:29 PM) ♠ space of aids.: You're not my boyfriend.
    (1:29 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Not for the next few days.
    (1:29 PM) ♠ space of aids.: Good bye now.
    As you can see, she might be giving you a hint.
    Not your boyfriend for the next few days so you still have hope!!

    Dude, you are not helping him. Perhaps his girlfriend is not as bad as you describe because as you can see, his girlfriend is just jealous.

    Is this that Aloysius?
    Familiar o.o

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