Originally Posted by
Freefalling
lol... Y'all gotta be women.
Side-stepping the "how sexist can you be" argument... though I'm sure another female would be more inclined to do so.
Everyone's opinions aside... the fact remains... she's sociable and you're not. So you're being passive aggressive with her... which really isn't fair. She shouldn't have to change who she fundamentally is just for you (or for anyone for that matter). Neither should you have to change who you are for her... It works out much better when you find someone who is much more compatible with you.
I can't really tell you if her actions were inappropriate... or if you're wrong. All I can say is that your views differ enough from hers to where there will always be constant arguments (loud or quiet).
You're not making each other happy... and sex alone can be rather hollow when the desire for 'someone who understands you' comes into play.
Some of the main purposes of having a relationship is to bring happiness to both the majority of the time, maintain the love you feel, and help both to better themselves.
Can you honestly say you feel happy with her the majority of the time or that you feel you are a better person for having met her? If you're not sure... or you answer no... then it might be time to determine if you're just wasting time here.
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen