how can I get her back

[andym]

after two weeks of space i dropped a text mesage just to say how are you - her reply - hello thinking today to communicate with you - need my space still - feeling better this way - more whole - grew increasingly uncertain that our relationship had a future - i think because it started in a place of pain for all three of us - i still love you - can we be friends and not lovers ??

I sent a reply to say OK friendship will be fine

She replied can we meet.

Now I have written this down I feel a degree of acceptance and the pain is diminishing.
However I feel sad that it has come to this and part of me knows that when I see her as a friend inside I still want her....aaaaaaarrrgggggh!
can I ever get her back?

[Gigabitch]

You can't be friends with her. She sounds simply confused, not over you. Try to convince her it's worth fighting for, but if she won't go for it, cut her off. If you try to be her friend, you'll only be helping her get over you, weaning her off slowly. Don't do that. If she misses you, she should take you back.