So, I called my girlfriend tonight, we have been dating for 4 or 5 months, and shes busy running errands. So we are talking, and she tells me, well I am home, and I need to shower. So I let her go to do her thing. Two hours later she calls me back, and I am like, sooo what are you up to? She tells me, I just got out of the shower, and now putting on make up. I was beginning to think, why are you putting on make up?
I am home doing a 12 page research paper due in the upcoming week before exams, so I know I cant spend time with her....this week.
Shes like "Did I forget to tell you I am going out tonight?" and I am thinking like, Ok....when were you going to tell me this? So being how I pretty sure we have trust, I am like well babe, I hope you have fun tonight. I then ask her, where are you going out to? shes like a bar, or the marine blah blah, its a club..basically.
So I was thinking, ok? so you dont know if your going to the club or the bar? and now your telling me your friends pressured you into going? and you are dressing to impress, and im sure she looks very nice.... I cant help it but feel a little insecure...its normal
I cant go, because I need to do my research paper, which is due very soon, and I am far behind. So she is like I wish you could go, fully aware that I can not go because I am behind on my paper....So I tell her well I am not going to tell you, you cant go...because I try to not be jealous, or how should i put it, giving her the trust..
So shes getting all dressed up, and shes like I wont even be out late... anyways, then she tells me I have to go... because we both are full time students, we either 1)call each other 2) keep in touch on our cells though Msn chat. Dont get me wrong we spend time together, but its just hectic during exam week...
So the wierd thing is, shes a phone-a-holic, she never turns it off, nor does she ever logs off msnIM on her phone. Its just something we picked up as we started dating. Apparently, now both of those options are either turned off or shes not even on it.
So, should I even care? Should I just give her, her space? or is this something I should be worrying about, shes was acting really weird..today...