Hi I'm Sam
My boyfriend of 4 months(tomorrow) is really confused. We have been on a break almost all week. At first it was because he needed to figure himself out and now he needs more time to figure out his feelings for us. I know he loves me it's just I don't know what to do. He said he doesn't want any help and that it's something he has to do on his own.
I don't know if he is scared about being in a committed relationship or not. His other relationships have been really shallow. Yesterday we kissed a few times but then he said it felt weird. We were still on our break and still are. He wanted to break up last night but then changed his mind. He just said he is really confused and everything. He told me I make him happy and that I'm really sweet and stuff. I went through something similar. I really love him so much and I wanna do something to help him out. Please I really need some help with this what should i do? I don't wanna lose him.
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09-05-09, 01:42 AM #1
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How can I help my bf
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09-05-09, 01:49 AM #2
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how old are you?
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09-05-09, 01:56 AM #3
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18 and he is 16 almost 17
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09-05-09, 02:45 AM #4
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he is not interested in you. you'd both be wasting your time forcing this relationship on each other.
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09-05-09, 02:47 AM #5
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There's nothing you can do to help-- I know you WANT to be able to, but this isn't a situation that requires anything from you. This is a decision he needs to make on his own-- either he wants to be with you or not.
It's only been 4 months and you're taking a break so he can "figure out his feelings." It's not a good sign.. then again he's 16-- what did you expect?
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Your on a break 4 months into your relationship? That's not a good start at all. And the fact he is only 16, just says it all really? Men are immature, and I'm surprised an 18 year old would choose a younger guy. Men your age are going to have less of a problem with their feelings because what experience does a 16 year old have with love? Not a lot.
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Last edited by RedRoses; 09-05-09 at 03:04 AM.
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