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    convince my friend you can be in love at thirteen

    can you give me a line to respond to my friend when she says its impossible to be in love at thirteen? she says you have to be eighteen and its just because its my first relationship i feel this, but my and my girlfriend both love each other. btw shes my girlfriends best friend so dont be mean -.-
    but i just want to convince her that its possible and u dont wake up at eighteen and understand love, i just need some proof or a line that will convince her

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    There's no set age to when you can fall in love, some fall in love first when they're 80, some when they're 18.

    Given your age it is less likely to be lust, but more likely that having a first girlfriend provokes an emotional response that, since you have nothing else to compare it to, feels like love.
    Its called infatuation. Look it up.

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    there's no such thing as love.
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    Hmm. Well, I would say its not impossible to feel the effect of love (largely hormones) at that age. Its that one wouldn't have the maturity to process those feelings in a mature way.

    Kind of like giving a 6 year old a real Ferrari. Not much point.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IndiReloaded View Post
    Hmm. Well, I would say its not impossible to feel the effect of love (largely hormones) at that age. Its that one wouldn't have the maturity to process those feelings in a mature way.

    Kind of like giving a 6 year old a real Ferrari. Not much point.
    heck, most mature people can't process any feelings. it's all lust to them.
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