My girlfriend sometimes txts this one guy stuff like
"goodnight love" "hay babe whats up?" "did you dream about me last night?"
When I asked her about it she said she was only joking and that she txts me stuff like that to me all the time.
Should I be worried or is this common for girls to txt guys like this?
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02-06-09, 07:56 PM #1
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What is actually cheating?
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02-06-09, 08:40 PM #2
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I wouldn't consider that to be cheating. Unless she was making frequent late night calls to this guy that would lead you to be suspicious.. But on the basis of those text messages, it would seem more like an insecurity on your part.
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02-06-09, 08:41 PM #3
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Sticking a penis into a wrong vagina
Originally Posted by meko
Start texting random women "Did you dream about my penis again last night?" and show the messages to your girlfriend saying it's just marking around stuff and nothing to worry about. Originally Posted by meko
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02-06-09, 08:48 PM #4
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Well, to answer this, one first has to define what cheating is.
You ask 50 different people, and you probably will get 50 different answers, from: looking at another person, over flirting with another person, to having sex with another person.
The bottom line of all this is: cheating is about betraying trust, about not honoring the commitment that two people have made to each other. The commitment made between boyfriend and girlfriend, between husband and wife, between two partners, is a commitment to honor each other - to be fully trustworthy - to be honest and true. This is a commitment about how you treat each other, and how you respect each other.[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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I agree. Originally Posted by Gottfried
If she said that in person and was joking while you were around I wouldn't worry, but a text can be interpreted so many different ways.
She may just be flirty.
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02-06-09, 11:55 PM #6
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wouldn't you call that passive agressive then? Originally Posted by zombie_loo89
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Possibly. But my girlfriend does that too, she jokes with people in front of me saying stuff like that. I know she doesn't mean it. Originally Posted by Sonrisa
Depends if your girlfriend is actually being serious. You can ask her and risk her getting pissed at you for not trusting her, or she may be actually more into this guy than you think.
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03-06-09, 05:29 AM #8
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Wow, your "girlfriend" is making you out to be the idiot.
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It's not cheating, but it's incredibly inappropriate.
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03-06-09, 06:36 AM #10
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She's crazy.
To answer your question.
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03-06-09, 02:54 PM #11
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I have asked her about it and she said she was only joking and it doesn't mean anything. Originally Posted by zombie_loo89
This is the only guy that she txts stuff like that too so I don't think shes just flirty.
Is this worth breaking up over?
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not unless you have hard evidence that she's doing something. Obviously ur relationship is not on a great track to begin with, or else you wouldn't care so much. There must be other signs.
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I'd say tell her it bothers you before you flat out break up with her. Maybe she's just a little clueless about how inappropriate it is. Tell her it bothers you...ALOT. Maybe you're not being assertive enough about registering your dislike of this behavior. Originally Posted by meko
If you do and she completely disregards your feelings about the matter, then yes, you could have a case for breaking up with her.“Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist”--George Carlin
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If it's just one guy she's saying this too then yes. I was under the impression it was multiple guys. Originally Posted by starbuck
I'd tell her it bothers you, and if she can't understand that then it is worth breaking up for.
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