being big girl to have boys scare me

[L.L]

well... the title said it all
I am actually 5'8"(about 175 cm) but because I swim I have a broad shoulder... but not like a man or something

but in my country all the boys is just about 170-178 cm.. and they prefer to date the woman that is small!!! soo when they see me all they say just "why you have such a big body... wonder who will like you"..
even knowing that is just a joke.. it hurting me a lot... and the girl wouldn't talk to me because I am different!!!

what should I do?

sorry if it's too much

[LoveHurts09]

what should u do? um what choice do u have?
do u think everyone should be the same perfect height? some people would be put off by small girls.
u just have to be confident in urself and just work on ur personality too, anyone who dates purely on looks is the one losing out.

[ecojeanne]

be happy with yourself and then people will be attracted to the electricity and vibe of confidence you have. don't focus so much on your build. do take care of your health and then after that it's up to you how much you let this affect you. it's down to your own psyc.

smile and people will smile back

be positive and people will be positive back

give out what you want to receive

most importantly don't obsess about something you have little or no control over

[Yggdrasil]

You are perfect the way you are and if someone can't appreciate you for whom you are, they are not worth your thoughts or consideration. I strongly would recommend not to listen to those people. All they are doing is trying to put toxic shame on you.

You have nothing to be ashamed of. A healthy, non toxic person will not discriminate because of ethnic background, gender, height, or whatever.

One day, you'll find such person and your life will be complete.

Till then: screw them. Your opinion about yourself and your feelings of self worth should not depend on the opinions of others.

[Rollerderby]

You're going to have to learn to be happy with what you got. Otherwise you will be miserable.

Your choices are: find a way to truly love yourself and thus find inner peace.

Or

Wish you looked differently, obsess over it, and be miserable.

[url]http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/10-ways-to-instantly-build-self-confidence/[/url]

[Illusional]

you should look into the taller men in your school or work or whatever is around you. i'm sure that you're not completely surrounded by midgets unless you like in smurfy land.

raverboy

[***Butterfly***]

Strut your stuff!!!!
Seriously! I have been every size imaginable. I had the perfect body (in my opinion) and gained a bunch of weight over the last 2 years that I'm working on losing again. No matter what size -I ALWAYS had guys interested in me. As long as you feel beautiful & carry yourself well ppl will notice you in a good way.
You're never gonna be everybodys type, but you are always beautiful just the way you are!

[okapa]

Well, I'm actually 178 cm and my girlfriend is taller so everyone gets jealous about it lol, I think you're ok

Not sure about the shoulders though, don't really know what you mean