ending a "would-be-affair" with a married man.. please help..

[cluelessinluv]

my mind says stop but my heart keeps on hoping..

i know, i know.. despite all the "i like/love you" and "sweetness" stuff he's showing, he would never leave his wife, (they just got married last month; when we got close earlier this year, he never mentioned that he was engaged)

i told him we should shouldn't go further beyond being friends because i'm not the type of person who approves cheating or ruins a relationship. he told me he respects my decision, but he keeps on calling me on the fone or walking me to my car.. (no holding hands this time though, i made it clear that friends don’t hold hands..)

still, how do i forget him if i get to see him everyday? he's my officemate by the way.. i try to avoid him, but still there's this part of me who wants to be with him--just to talk or laugh with him..

how do i kill this feeling? how can i stop???

please help..so confused..


-cluelessinluv-

[Sonrisa]

put yourself in his wife's shoes.

[tiffamber12]

just go out with someone else, thats what he is doing to you at least. put it on test if its meant to be, he will leave her which is unfurtunantly but i personally would trust a guy that cheats on his wife after a month he could do the same to you!

[Sonrisa]

if i were his wife, you'd most likely be dead.

[tiffamber12]

excuse me wouldnt trust a guy cheating on his wife after a month