Hmmmm....

[Spicy]

Just a bit of advice, if you please.

So I hang out at a forum, and there is a poster who has caught my eye. From his posts I see we have a lot in common and share many view points.

We have been carrying on a mild flirtation, sent a few photographs back and forth. Everything seems to be on the up and up.


The more I talk to him the more I like this guy, any advice on taking it to the next level? Should i keep playing somewhat coy, or make my interests obvious?

[Gigabitch]

Why don't you just go slam your fingers in a car door? That's just about as likely to make you happy as hooking up with some guy you met on a forum. Don't look at doppelganger as a role model- it almost NEVER works out.

[Spicy]

Why don't you just go slam your fingers in a car door? That's just about as likely to make you happy as hooking up with some guy you met on a forum. Don't look at doppelganger as a role model- it almost NEVER works out.

So what you are saying (using dopplegagner as an example) is these things only wok out for deviants?

[Gigabitch]

No, there are plenty of deviants on forums that would never get that lucky. Look, do what ever you want, but keep your expectations low. Like ground level.

[Mish]

I agree with Giga, most of the time forum relationships are not a good idea, they rarely work out. Most of the time due to distance, lack of face to face chemistry and physical intimacy.

[Yggdrasil]

Just a bit of advice, if you please.

So I hang out at a forum, and there is a poster who has caught my eye. From his posts I see we have a lot in common and share many view points.

We have been carrying on a mild flirtation, sent a few photographs back and forth. Everything seems to be on the up and up.


The more I talk to him the more I like this guy, any advice on taking it to the next level? Should i keep playing somewhat coy, or make my interests obvious?

Earth to Spicey: get back down here

[ecojeanne]

spicy, are you playin'? he's gonna read this, ya know that....you're just messin' with his head, you naughty girl!

[Yggdrasil]

spicy, are you playin'? he's gonna read this, ya know that....you're just messin' with his head, you naughty girl!

So I hang out at a forum

Sells ecojeanne a pair of glasses

J/K

I guess you missed the 'a' inbetween hanging out and forum

[ecojeanne]

ygg mmm yes but i got a thanks! doc doc where for art thou?

lol

[Yggdrasil]

ygg mmm yes but i got a thanks!

yeah.. *ponder* lol

[doppelgaenger]

I am in a relationship with a person I met on a forum... been almost a whole year now since we met. Fortunately our plans sort of collided and made it easy for things to work out; I studied abroad, she got an opportunity go go on vacation, ended up coming here. Everything worked out. 30 days I am going to her country and meeting her friends and family. Then we are going on a 20 day vacation together.

It rarely happens, and it barely ever works out. I don't really remember how it started, but at the beginning we weren't serious about it, because of how ludicrous it was.

It's tough, too. It takes 2 strong people to make something like that work out. The relationship has to be strong as hell. The love and trust has to be there.

[IndiReloaded]

I agree with Giga, most of the time forum relationships are not a good idea, they rarely work out. Most of the time due to distance, lack of face to face chemistry and physical intimacy.

Hey, just b/c we are on different continents shouldn't rule us out as a couple Mish! We could shuttle our children on the red-eye on weekends. Its only 15 hours...

[IndiReloaded]

Relationships are complicated enough IRL. Why would you ever deliberately *start* out as an LDR? The online part makes it that much worse.

Might as well get a RealDoll and a skype chat whore for audio.

[Doc Durian]

ygg mmm yes but i got a thanks! doc doc where for art thou?

lol

Down at Eco Beach eating muffins.

[starbuck]

Down at Eco Beach eating muffins.

I nearly spit out my coffee. You guys are freaking hilarious!